That's ridiculos!! This society is so stupid, I get it if they didn't consent but they did! But your right I will stop for both our sakes. Better safe than sorry
Society isn't making the rules, there's no courthouse ruling exactly what cheating is for every single couple. Couples set their own rules and boundaries, and they differ between couples.
These are basic rules people make for each other when married.
Most married women are not comfortable with their husbands hugging and being friendly with other women, or even having female friends. Even if you are a transwomen, it might piss her off, so it's is still disrespectful. Because hugging is an intimate thing, makes people feel good when down or closer to said person hugging them. Even secretly texting another woman is a form of cheating to some wives. Society isn't making these rules, married couples are.
Good just find a single dude, so your job wont be at risk.
And talk to him next time if he's down.
unless they both tell you hugging other women/transwomen are fine in their marriage, don't hug him anymore. Also, he doesn't take you up on your hug offers think that's a big enough sign to stop as well.
Please think about your job first, your there to make a living. Friends and "crushes" come after.
I just realized I'm sexually harassing my boss
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That's ridiculos!! This society is so stupid, I get it if they didn't consent but they did! But your right I will stop for both our sakes. Better safe than sorry
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Society isn't making the rules, there's no courthouse ruling exactly what cheating is for every single couple. Couples set their own rules and boundaries, and they differ between couples.
These are basic rules people make for each other when married.
Most married women are not comfortable with their husbands hugging and being friendly with other women, or even having female friends. Even if you are a transwomen, it might piss her off, so it's is still disrespectful. Because hugging is an intimate thing, makes people feel good when down or closer to said person hugging them. Even secretly texting another woman is a form of cheating to some wives. Society isn't making these rules, married couples are.
Good just find a single dude, so your job wont be at risk.
And talk to him next time if he's down.
unless they both tell you hugging other women/transwomen are fine in their marriage, don't hug him anymore. Also, he doesn't take you up on your hug offers think that's a big enough sign to stop as well.
Please think about your job first, your there to make a living. Friends and "crushes" come after.