I just can't stay faithful.

The sooner the better, tell her before you cheat on her again. This isn't something to lie to your partner about, you loved her and married her for a reason so tell her now. Don't let her waste another day on you she deserves someone that will be faithful to her. Also just a suggestion don't date or get into relationships anymore if you're not going to be faithful. The second you thought about cheating you should have told your wife and separated, if you can't be faithful to someone don't waste their time.

Thats disgusting behavior.

If you are aware of your problem and do nothing to fix it then you dont really want to change.
if you wanted to change you would get professional help. And even relationship counseling since you dont seem to know how to have a healthy one.

Umm i think you're a sex addict and you need help.

It's very rude and selfish.....that you didn't ask her to join you lol

Talk to your wife and get it over with. The second, if you do want to settle down, find someone who is open minded, be honest. You can as an example, while walking with a woman tot ell a story of an experience, without saying directly you cannot comitt and into sleeping around. There are women open minded who will settle down but also like to do same as you.

So you don't have to cheat. Just find a woman that is of similar values as you.

For example, I'm with a woman but she knows I like sleeping with other women. So, I have other women sleep in bed wth my girlfriend and I do them both i.e. 3 way. Me and two women. Awesome.

I don't have to lie. I don't have to cheat. I am up front to women and those who are not into what I am, awesome, go their merry way. Those who are into what I am saying, awesome, we get to know each other and go for it.

There is no judgement from me, and those who judge are the WORSE! You won't believe what they are hiding. So forget what someone says about you..

Make it right with your wife, and if she's ok by open relationship great but if she ain't and she cannot take your lies, cheating, then let her go. Start fresh but this time, be a guy who is up front. You don't need to hide, lie and cheat. There are women out there who are open minded as I have found many.

It could be a sex addiction, but you feel the urge to seek out different partners. I think that part is normal, being a man, but if you truly love someone I find it kind of negative that you don't have the willpower to stay faithful. I am a guy too, and I've been cheated on and it's pretty devastating, it's like a major punch in the chest that hurts you so emotionally that you can't describe. Maybe you should seek out sex addiction recovery as an option, hell, if you're horny, watch a porno and jack off, no harm in that right?

I think this kind of addiction is often because you are insecure about yourself and your relationships. The cheater is always at the upper hand and they are the one with the secrets - so it feels more secure than guessing whether your other half has kept any secrets from you.

I think in this time and age, trust is harder rather than easier to build, and you are not alone in feeling unable to be truly intimate with someone. And putting all your eggs in one basket feels really risky, like losing yourself. This is an issue of yourself, and yourself only. Whether the woman is "the one" or not does not factor in. It is your own issue. So, if you do have a goal that you can have a lasting relationship in your life, please do something about your insecurities and stuff. It is for your own good.

Not many guys can realize what sex does to them other than physical gratification, because of their hormonal drive. But in fact, I think both men and women are looking for something in sex. For me, for example, it is a feeling of total acceptance and intimacy.

wow u guys come down hard, id say u have a problem, and before u just call its quits with ur wife maybe talk to her n tell her how u feel and how bad u feel and how much u want to fix ur problem and get some professional help. maybe ur wife will be understanding and willing to stay by ur side and help u work this out but im sure u would owe her big time lol. marriage is based on love and if yall have that u can get thru this, wish u the best of luck.

you should go to a psychologist and try to understand why this happens!
If you dont do that, you'll feel lonely forever... Dont you understand, it's like an issue you have and you need to stop this so you can be happy with someone again!

This woman you married DOES NOT deserve you to cheat on her. I dont think you should leave her, I think you should try and fix yourself and then MAN UP and be the man she needs and the man she loves.

You can be happy with her, go to the psychologist, believe in me

https://saa-recovery.org/

I'm really sorry for ur wife, she deserves someone better.
And I'm really sorry for u, u deserve more help than a website.
(sry INN, really I am.)

Not cool behaviour mate but I think you are not ready to settle down, or could be you married the woman!

If I thought for a moment that you were anything other than a troll, I'd feel sorry for your nonexistent wife.
I find it pretty hard to believe you could find 4 different women who would actually fuck a jerk like you, so I can't believe the rest of your fairy tale, either.
It seems a lot more likely you are a prepubescent teen, dreaming of a life you think would make you a big man and gain respect. Sorry, wrong on all counts.