I in i don't think guys who pay for it are losers

I have never paid for sex and I don't have any desire to do so. But I don't understand all the people who say if you pay for it your a loser or you can't get any otherwise.

I don't believe that. Sometimes guys just want an easy lay, it doesn't mean they can't get any otherwise it's just sometimes they're lazy. Professional chefs sometimes go out for a meal when they don't feel like cooking.

Or maybe it's not even that sometimes they're girl can't or won't give them what they want, I've read about some girls actually arranging a hooker for their boyfriends and husband's in the legal Nevada brothels.

Look I'm not advocating hitting up the cat houses but I just don't understand the stigma around a guy who does pay for it.

is it normal I see it this way.

Is It Normal?
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  • I mean, I get it if it's a kind of fetish to do it with a woman that had it with a dozen men on the same day. But if you're doing this just to have sex, it's kinda stupid, because "just having sex" is among the easiest things you can do today. As long as you lower your expectations sufficiently, that is.

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  • You pay for Nookie, whether you get it from your girlfriend, your lover, a prostitute or whoever you choose to have some with.

    The big difference between the lot of them is WHEN you are going to pay!

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  • My son, let me drop some knowledge on you. Paying for sex, and the beginning of a relationship are essentially two sides of the same coin. Think about it. If you pay for sex, you are paying a flat rate, point blank(hue) period. If you were to go on a date with a lady, buying drinks, dates, movies, etc, you are basically putting in what i like to call an investment. So to me, the only difference between paying for sex and people who don't is what you are getting out of the time that you are putting into the lady.

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  • Guy who pay for sex often just don't want the complications of a relationship. Nothing wrong with that.

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