Not that I am an expert on women or anything, but people can almost smell a person who lacks confidence.
Confidence does not necessarily mean that you have to be bold all the time either. I am a shy person, but I don't have problems talking to anyone, including women (or asking them out).
Just practice talking with people, all kinds, either sex, everywhere--about anything...the weather, the news, etc. Then work on the little things. Establish and maintain eye contact. Really look into their eyes, really listen to what they have to say (while maintaining eye contact). Smiles are contagious, and imply confidence. Be seen. Do this often.
Next go to places that interest you, chances are you will find people there that share the same interests. Talk to them. Share your interests. Once you have established an easy going friendly relationship then you can expand the relationship by grabbing a coffee at Starbucks or something, then lunch, etc. you will find that it will grow from there. But it is much easier to ask women out when there is some modicum of a relationship (however fragile it may be in the beginning).
Cold, just ask-her-out questions out of the blue only works in the movies.
I haven't had a girlfriend in a while
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Not that I am an expert on women or anything, but people can almost smell a person who lacks confidence.
Confidence does not necessarily mean that you have to be bold all the time either. I am a shy person, but I don't have problems talking to anyone, including women (or asking them out).
Just practice talking with people, all kinds, either sex, everywhere--about anything...the weather, the news, etc. Then work on the little things. Establish and maintain eye contact. Really look into their eyes, really listen to what they have to say (while maintaining eye contact). Smiles are contagious, and imply confidence. Be seen. Do this often.
Next go to places that interest you, chances are you will find people there that share the same interests. Talk to them. Share your interests. Once you have established an easy going friendly relationship then you can expand the relationship by grabbing a coffee at Starbucks or something, then lunch, etc. you will find that it will grow from there. But it is much easier to ask women out when there is some modicum of a relationship (however fragile it may be in the beginning).
Cold, just ask-her-out questions out of the blue only works in the movies.