It is normal, but not healthy. I have not ever had a girlfriend (I'm 23 years old). You just feel that you suck (and maybe we do). But the fact is that you must recognize that you're not very skilled in the gf department and work on it. I'm still without gf, but at least I've overcome the shyness. Don't start with anything big. Start with something small.
You can't talk with a girl you like? Try to at least say a passing hello smile.
Can't start conversations with a good looking girl? Start conversations with regular looking girls.
Can't get a date? As a female-friend for a friends date. You'll get experience and fun.
Can't get a date with the girl you like? Just ask her out (ok, this is a very advanced one for us who are very shy).
This has helped me a lot. I hope it helps you too.
I haven't had a girlfriend in a while
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It is normal, but not healthy. I have not ever had a girlfriend (I'm 23 years old). You just feel that you suck (and maybe we do). But the fact is that you must recognize that you're not very skilled in the gf department and work on it. I'm still without gf, but at least I've overcome the shyness. Don't start with anything big. Start with something small.
You can't talk with a girl you like? Try to at least say a passing hello smile.
Can't start conversations with a good looking girl? Start conversations with regular looking girls.
Can't get a date? As a female-friend for a friends date. You'll get experience and fun.
Can't get a date with the girl you like? Just ask her out (ok, this is a very advanced one for us who are very shy).
This has helped me a lot. I hope it helps you too.