You're 18, she's 18... what comes along with that is passive-aggressiveness, naive tendencies, and not seeing the world for what it really is. Most girls who have guys friends don't realize that the guys are only their friends because they eventually want to sleep with them (or be their next boyfriend). I would insist on hanging out with her when she's around her guy friends, and it is your job to make sure the guy friends like and respect you. If they don't then she needs to be the one to say "hey, if you have a problem with my boyfriend then you have a problem with me". I would, personally, make a stink about it - because she's so naive at this age that she doesn't see the reality of the situation and could find herself manipulated in a predicament that could harm y'alls relationship.
I have trouble with trust and girlfriend problems.
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You're 18, she's 18... what comes along with that is passive-aggressiveness, naive tendencies, and not seeing the world for what it really is. Most girls who have guys friends don't realize that the guys are only their friends because they eventually want to sleep with them (or be their next boyfriend). I would insist on hanging out with her when she's around her guy friends, and it is your job to make sure the guy friends like and respect you. If they don't then she needs to be the one to say "hey, if you have a problem with my boyfriend then you have a problem with me". I would, personally, make a stink about it - because she's so naive at this age that she doesn't see the reality of the situation and could find herself manipulated in a predicament that could harm y'alls relationship.