Try and find something you can do well and enjoy doing. Focus on that. You may never be outstanding, but most of us aren't outstanding. Stop comparing yourself to the exceptions to the rule.
Also, there are plenty of women who would be attracted to you despite a lack of a unique or interesting talent. There are plenty of women without a unique or interesting talent, for one thing! It's more important that you work on your personality - your self-esteem and confidence. Being considerate, having shared interests and expressing your passion for them, being able to hold a conversation, being adventurous - all these attributes can make you appealing to other people and attractive to prospective partners.
Complaining that you're not the 'next big thing' is an unattractive and pessimistic attitude... Saying "I may never be this successful genius, but as long as I can find something I love doing and can do at least well enough to keep doing it, I'll be happy!" is an attractive and optimistic attitude :)
i have no talents. IIN?
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Try and find something you can do well and enjoy doing. Focus on that. You may never be outstanding, but most of us aren't outstanding. Stop comparing yourself to the exceptions to the rule.
Also, there are plenty of women who would be attracted to you despite a lack of a unique or interesting talent. There are plenty of women without a unique or interesting talent, for one thing! It's more important that you work on your personality - your self-esteem and confidence. Being considerate, having shared interests and expressing your passion for them, being able to hold a conversation, being adventurous - all these attributes can make you appealing to other people and attractive to prospective partners.
Complaining that you're not the 'next big thing' is an unattractive and pessimistic attitude... Saying "I may never be this successful genius, but as long as I can find something I love doing and can do at least well enough to keep doing it, I'll be happy!" is an attractive and optimistic attitude :)