I have no talents. iin?

is it normal i'm 23 and i have no talents whatsoever? i have tried to do many things and failed. i can't draw. can't play instruments. can't dance or sing. not all that smart or good looking either. i think it is a lie when people say "everyone has a talent and something special about them". not me. i'm a born loser. i guess my talent is not having a talent. that's also why i can't get women,because there is nothing special or unique about me that interests them. i aint shit

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  • Avant-Garde

    Don't be so hard on yourself. Everyone has some form of something that they are good at. Sometimes, our talents are easy to find. Sometimes, it is more difficult to discover what that special knack is, in which case, we have to try to get in touch with ourselves. For instance with me, I was always drawn to art but it wasn't until I was older that I started to take it more seriously. Then, when I found myself unable to do it... it took me quite a bit of thinking to realize that I always had a gift for writing.

    I know it can be hard at times but never give up on yourself. I'm not trying to sound cliché but its the truth. Keep trying to shoot for higher goals when you past the previous ones.

    Good Luck:D

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    • RoseIsabella

      Right on!

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      • gummy_jr

        Write on ;)

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      • Avant-Garde

        Gracias!

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    • BlackJohnnylicious

      nigga u got aids?

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      • Avant-Garde

        How does writing a good comment mean that someone has AIDS/HIV?

        And no, I don't have it nor is it anything to be joking about. Its a serious matter. One that should be approached with maturity, something that you clearly lack.

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        • BlackJohnnylicious

          nigga u got aids?

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          • Avant-Garde

            That's it! I'm calling the Billy Goats Gruff (Going over bridges and beating trolls since 1841/1844).

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            • BlackJohnnylicious

              nigga... aids?

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  • disthing

    Try and find something you can do well and enjoy doing. Focus on that. You may never be outstanding, but most of us aren't outstanding. Stop comparing yourself to the exceptions to the rule.

    Also, there are plenty of women who would be attracted to you despite a lack of a unique or interesting talent. There are plenty of women without a unique or interesting talent, for one thing! It's more important that you work on your personality - your self-esteem and confidence. Being considerate, having shared interests and expressing your passion for them, being able to hold a conversation, being adventurous - all these attributes can make you appealing to other people and attractive to prospective partners.

    Complaining that you're not the 'next big thing' is an unattractive and pessimistic attitude... Saying "I may never be this successful genius, but as long as I can find something I love doing and can do at least well enough to keep doing it, I'll be happy!" is an attractive and optimistic attitude :)

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Dude, you can't get women not because you're ugly or boring. It's because you have no self-esteem and think you have nothing to offer. Women are attracted to confidence, humour and an overall nice personality.

    One thing that most people can become good at is a sport. Why don't you commit to becoming really good at something like cycling, swimming, rowing, surfing, or even better, weight lifting. Getting shredded is the first step my friend.

    If you can show a girl that you're self confident, independent and passionate about something in your life, you're set!

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  • NotStrangeBird

    You refer to talent like you're supposed to pick up a pen and start writing operas or outshoot tiger woods on your first ever round of golf.

    Talent is subjective and what's more important and impressive than being good at something by default or gift of nature, is hard work, practice, and persistence.

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  • Mikki_Dee's

    You can flip burgers at McDonald's. It's a respectable job.

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  • Moonbow

    You need to take a hike down to your local Army, Navy, or whatever, recruiting office and "sign up!" Otherwise, you're going to be a loser for the remainder of your life. Stop whining and do something!!!!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Maybe you're talent is not recognising talent?

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  • AgentM.Kenna

    Maybe your talent is that you're really good at having sex, there are ppl like that

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  • rclay1992

    I have a few hobbies that i like. I'm not that good at them but I enjoy it. If you cant find something your good at find something that is just fun and that makes you happy.

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  • anti-hero

    Have you tried sucking penis?

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  • IDiGAFi

    You have the ability to tell it to yourself straight. Not many do, so that's a starting point. What can you do with your ability to face your limitations with honesty? Don't say "nothing". Maybe you can redirect that honesty towards someone or something else and put it to use in some context where it's needed and appreciated.

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  • imadragon

    I know why you "can't get women". It's because of your low self-esteem.

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  • peterr

    You can always be a queer. Many ugly women and men do this.

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  • loopoo

    I'm the same, I don't really give a shit though

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  • Nephew7

    Life is temporary, you need to work at talent, bitching dont help.
    #truth

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  • zxc

    why you need talents?

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  • Mr.Hate

    Then go get a fucking talent then.

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