I have no self confidence

I go through stages of liking myself to absolutely hating how I look, more hating than liking. I view other girls and wish I was them, thin, I'm thin but not thin thin, I have cellulite I'm not tonned. No guy wants me that I like. I've never had a boyfriend. No one ever chats to me even though I try :(

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Based on 30 votes (26 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • noozy

    You have to love yourself before anyone could love you :) I think self confidence and not feeling like you need a boy, is the best thing for your state of mind.

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  • karmasAbich

    You need to reframe your mind.
    notice when you are being hard on yourself, stop it, and then say things nice about yourself.
    Be mindful of how you treat yourself. Don't rely on other people to make you happy.

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle

    If you want to be skinny then why dont you work on it?

    Theres always something you can do to uplift yourself.

    Go jogging, you'll feel good about yourself

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  • S12207

    Expectations of people are getting ridiculous. Look at botox and Dolly Parton she thinks she looks great, other people might think Mrs Potato Head. Be comfortable in your own skin you will never please everyone, your opinion is the only one that matters

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  • robit

    If there's something making you feel this way, don't be afraid to talk to someone about it.

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  • JonathanOo

    Welcome to the club:(
    It takes time, someone will want you someday. Just know it may not be who/what you expect. Sometimes you have to clear your mind and self expectations and desires.

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