Ok I am a daughter who did not have a Dad in my life and for period of time he was here he was cruel....little Girls and big girls NEED their Dads!!! It is not to late to be involved in a relationship or to start one with your daughter! She needs it and you need it..And as for your 3 year old having a sister will be exciting for her and she will just except it if you dont make a huge issue out of it...She's 3 how much do you really remember at 3??? 3 year olds are innocent and precious and they accept things at face value if you make this right it will be awsome for her to have a big sister...I have experience I have 5 kids and 2 are adopted !!! and I love them ALL the same and when we added a new family member we just made it a normal family event...Not knowing your 10 year old is NOT your fault but if you deny her now..it will be!!! you have 2 daughters and you need to father them both just as we have 5 children 4 grown now but we parent them all regardless of how they came into our family and one was 11 when we adopted him..it was harder than adopting an infant but you are the adult in this issue and you set the tone of acceptance in your family...I suggest family counseling for all of you..This can and will work out but work is the key word and as Dad you need to father both daughters and you need to do everything possible to make it work,,,your 10 year old needs a Daddy just as bad as your 3 year old..you sound loving and concerned for both so let your heart lead you get help..like church or counseling and just start being a Dad now and work this out legally if need be because you have a 10 old who has prob been wondering for years where her daddy is..and you can explain the truth to her and also let her know..Her Daddy is here now for her and she will never be with out you again...Great luck to you and God Bless
i have never met my 10 year old daughter
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Ok I am a daughter who did not have a Dad in my life and for period of time he was here he was cruel....little Girls and big girls NEED their Dads!!! It is not to late to be involved in a relationship or to start one with your daughter! She needs it and you need it..And as for your 3 year old having a sister will be exciting for her and she will just except it if you dont make a huge issue out of it...She's 3 how much do you really remember at 3??? 3 year olds are innocent and precious and they accept things at face value if you make this right it will be awsome for her to have a big sister...I have experience I have 5 kids and 2 are adopted !!! and I love them ALL the same and when we added a new family member we just made it a normal family event...Not knowing your 10 year old is NOT your fault but if you deny her now..it will be!!! you have 2 daughters and you need to father them both just as we have 5 children 4 grown now but we parent them all regardless of how they came into our family and one was 11 when we adopted him..it was harder than adopting an infant but you are the adult in this issue and you set the tone of acceptance in your family...I suggest family counseling for all of you..This can and will work out but work is the key word and as Dad you need to father both daughters and you need to do everything possible to make it work,,,your 10 year old needs a Daddy just as bad as your 3 year old..you sound loving and concerned for both so let your heart lead you get help..like church or counseling and just start being a Dad now and work this out legally if need be because you have a 10 old who has prob been wondering for years where her daddy is..and you can explain the truth to her and also let her know..Her Daddy is here now for her and she will never be with out you again...Great luck to you and God Bless