I've never met my father I went to Greece this year in July I'm now 22, I was brought up by my grandparents and they only told me when I turned 21 about my dad and they knew where he lived . So we went and it's now halfway through October....
and yesterday he called me, a guy we met that I gave my number to while we were in Greece told him about me!
I also left a letter at his parents house but he told me they never gave him it. We spoke yesterday for one hour on Skype , in one breath he said that he had asked my mum to make a go of things and in the next he said he thought I wasn't his & he asked me for a DNA which is fair enough I've been more than understanding I told him I wanted to causing no trouble.... We agreed to do the DNA we ended the chat on Skype after about an hour and a lot of questions from both him & his wife (who wasn't as receptive) he then rang me this morning and basically said if I try to contact him again or we go back to the Greek island where he lives he personally will cut up me and my family! Which hurt but I wasn't mad...
It's messing with his life,
And he's going through the emotions as he's just found out!
The reason that you need to get in touch with your daughter is because for 22 years I've always wondered where he is, who he is, what hes like & what he works as , I've often thought when I've looked up at the moon it's calming and makes me content to know that he is under the same moon as me. Every plane that flew over the house as a child I wondered and I wished that he'd be on it!
Even after everything that's been said I don't blame him I am an adult now so it is different, but he's never tried! And still I have no hard feelings!
you can't change yesterday but you can certainly change tomorrow!!!
Life & time are both precious things that we humans take for graunted.
In what ever way you contact her she will be truly happy...
God forbid something happens to either of you... Would be a life lived with regret.
go get a future with your baby you both deserve it
.... X
i have never met my 10 year old daughter
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I've never met my father I went to Greece this year in July I'm now 22, I was brought up by my grandparents and they only told me when I turned 21 about my dad and they knew where he lived . So we went and it's now halfway through October....
and yesterday he called me, a guy we met that I gave my number to while we were in Greece told him about me!
I also left a letter at his parents house but he told me they never gave him it. We spoke yesterday for one hour on Skype , in one breath he said that he had asked my mum to make a go of things and in the next he said he thought I wasn't his & he asked me for a DNA which is fair enough I've been more than understanding I told him I wanted to causing no trouble.... We agreed to do the DNA we ended the chat on Skype after about an hour and a lot of questions from both him & his wife (who wasn't as receptive) he then rang me this morning and basically said if I try to contact him again or we go back to the Greek island where he lives he personally will cut up me and my family! Which hurt but I wasn't mad...
It's messing with his life,
And he's going through the emotions as he's just found out!
The reason that you need to get in touch with your daughter is because for 22 years I've always wondered where he is, who he is, what hes like & what he works as , I've often thought when I've looked up at the moon it's calming and makes me content to know that he is under the same moon as me. Every plane that flew over the house as a child I wondered and I wished that he'd be on it!
Even after everything that's been said I don't blame him I am an adult now so it is different, but he's never tried! And still I have no hard feelings!
you can't change yesterday but you can certainly change tomorrow!!!
Life & time are both precious things that we humans take for graunted.
In what ever way you contact her she will be truly happy...
God forbid something happens to either of you... Would be a life lived with regret.
go get a future with your baby you both deserve it
.... X
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