I have fat shamed my girlfriend for years. iin?

Fat shaming only makes it more difficult for the overweight person. Hopefully, she will soon gather up the courage to eat healthy, hit the gym and leave your gum flapping ass.

My boyfriend is a heavier guy, admitidly it's not something I'm exactly attracted to but his size grew on me, however I would never ever fat shame someone let alone my significant other. That's just fucked up man, I hope she dumps you

Hope she leaves you and then gets thin

Shaming the person is only going to make them miserable, gain more weight, and be less healthy. The best way to help someone is to diet and exercise with them so they feel motivated.

Change girlfriend.

No, being a shitty boyfriend isn't normal.

Fat shaming makes you look bad. If you aren't married or have children, your dedication to this relationship is substantially lower. You know some people break up right? Don't be that couple that dies in a murder-suicide.

If you love her or do think this is a good choice of a relationship long-term, one of the best ways to get past this is actually go to the gym with her and work out together. It won't seem quite as much as you just saying, hey, go to the gym fat ass". You will probably also both feel better and may see a spark in sex or romance again.

Mean

Lost puppies change girlfriends

Why you want her thin more cCushion for the pushing
And there is more of her to love

I will say only this. Chinese people are shaming fat everywhere. They have their own strong values and traditions. As a result, I have never seen Chinese degenerates, unsure what to choose between their 72 genders or progressing so much with progressive disgusting LGBT parades or with modern "feminist" movements smashing oppresive scales and spreading shit on the internet.