I have an obsessed stalker

I moved to a new town, and got transferred to a new school. I've been here for five months, and I've noticed this girl following me home a few times. She keeps leaving notes in my locker, and knows stuff I've been doing in my free time even if I don't post it to FB. Last wI don't know how to tell her I don't like her. I don't want to call the cops, cause I feel like that would be an overreaction. How do I handle this without her freaking out?

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  • I'd confront her, ask her why she is following you. Maybe she likes you?

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  • SpookyPancake

    Dude, if you were a girl, and she was a dude, you would probabl be calling the cops right now. But cause ppl say "girls are innocent"your attitude is different. So was the attitude of many other guys, who then, best case scenario, ended up with their private info on the Internet, or worst case scenario, ended up hacked into pieces with a meat cleaver.

    If you want to talk to her, go ahead. Tell her you don't like to be followed and you aren't interested in her. Tell someone else you are being followed. Don't hesitate to call the cops if shit escaletes. Good luck.

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  • edwininthematrix

    Just accept that she is a part of your life now.

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  • nerdisian

    This girl might just have an intense crush on you but not have the social skills to express it correctly. Don't call the cops yet, as it doesn't seem like she has done anything completely illegal yet. Tell a teacher you trust about it. They can help you figure it out without getting the cops involved. (they might eventually get involved, but probably only if the teacher thinks you are in immediate physical danger. Like getting stabbed or kidnapped or something)

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  • RoseIsabella

    Damn! That is scary!

    Would it be possible to say, "hey, why are you following me?", or, "please stop following me"? I dunno, I'm sorry, because it's relatively safe more me in my small abode at the moment, and you're the one who's be followed. Maybe you could tell the school counselor?

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    • I wanted to try and handle this myself because I know that getting someone else involved could end up ruining this girls life. I don't want that on my conscience.

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      • JonathanOo

        Talk to her. Ignoring her won't get you anywhere. Maybe she just needs a friend to help chill her out

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