Something between five and six inches is apparently the norm for guys of European descent. However, the data on this is a little suspect, since most is self-reported. Strangely enough, there doesn't seem to be much money or academic glory in research projects which involve selecting a random sample of hundreds of guys, getting them each alone in a room and having them produce an erection, and then their penis being accurately measured by an objective researcher.
So many guys are obsessed with penis length. I guess it's because we all have distant memories of looking down as a young boy at this tiny little nub of a thing sticking out from us, and whoa! Look at it now!
The fact is that, in terms of sexual pleasure for women during PIV sex, girth is far more significant than length. A nine-inch pencil-dick ain't going to provide much friction compared to a thick five inches.
In any case, the position of the clitoris relative to the vaginal opening means that for the vast majority of women with a more or less average-sized penis in their vagina, PIV sex alone won't be enough to provide sufficient stimulation to the clitoris for her to reach orgasm.
It is true that some women are really into thick, long dicks, but there are also women who associate hefty penises with assholes who think that a big cock makes them God's gift to women. The fact is that very few women see men as no more than a cock which a body happens to be attached to, and the size of his penis is not the most important aspect of a man for the vast majority of women. No man should define himself by the size of his penis, just as no woman should define herself by the size of her breasts, the size and shape of her labia, or any other part of her body.
When it comes to practicalities, if a man has a relatively short penis and he and the woman he's with want to have PIV sex, then the cowgirl position is probably one of the best. If necessary, the guy can put a pillow or two under his butt to elevate his pelvis and maximise the length of his penis sticking up. Cowgirl also has the advantage of allowing the woman to do the moves that feel best to her, since it's possible for her to angle her pelvis for direct clitoral stimulation. I've always found it wonderful from the visual point of view as well, particularly if the woman is open to the idea of her rubbing her pussy to orgasm while I talk dirty and she rides.
I have an extremely small penis
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Something between five and six inches is apparently the norm for guys of European descent. However, the data on this is a little suspect, since most is self-reported. Strangely enough, there doesn't seem to be much money or academic glory in research projects which involve selecting a random sample of hundreds of guys, getting them each alone in a room and having them produce an erection, and then their penis being accurately measured by an objective researcher.
So many guys are obsessed with penis length. I guess it's because we all have distant memories of looking down as a young boy at this tiny little nub of a thing sticking out from us, and whoa! Look at it now!
The fact is that, in terms of sexual pleasure for women during PIV sex, girth is far more significant than length. A nine-inch pencil-dick ain't going to provide much friction compared to a thick five inches.
In any case, the position of the clitoris relative to the vaginal opening means that for the vast majority of women with a more or less average-sized penis in their vagina, PIV sex alone won't be enough to provide sufficient stimulation to the clitoris for her to reach orgasm.
It is true that some women are really into thick, long dicks, but there are also women who associate hefty penises with assholes who think that a big cock makes them God's gift to women. The fact is that very few women see men as no more than a cock which a body happens to be attached to, and the size of his penis is not the most important aspect of a man for the vast majority of women. No man should define himself by the size of his penis, just as no woman should define herself by the size of her breasts, the size and shape of her labia, or any other part of her body.
When it comes to practicalities, if a man has a relatively short penis and he and the woman he's with want to have PIV sex, then the cowgirl position is probably one of the best. If necessary, the guy can put a pillow or two under his butt to elevate his pelvis and maximise the length of his penis sticking up. Cowgirl also has the advantage of allowing the woman to do the moves that feel best to her, since it's possible for her to angle her pelvis for direct clitoral stimulation. I've always found it wonderful from the visual point of view as well, particularly if the woman is open to the idea of her rubbing her pussy to orgasm while I talk dirty and she rides.