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I have a boyfriend, weve been together for years and because of that he doesnt make me feel special or notice me much. For some reason I still crave attention of other guys because I always catch them looking at me? Im just wondering is it normal I'm still attracted to them and fantasize some times of them.
Just that your with someone dont make it impossible to find other humans attractive...-_-
Normal. You should alwyas be on the lookout for better options until you tie the knot. Who knows you might find someone better for you.
It is scientifically proven that humans in general are not designed to be monogamous with just one partner, and therefore, it is completely normal to be attracted to others and have sexual fantasies with other people while deeply involved in a committed relationship. With that said, if your boyfriend isn't paying too much attention to you these days (and you're an attractive woman), then God Damnit -- go out there and get you some big fat super hard thick dick, fuck it crazy and madly with all your might, and then give your new fantasy boy toy the absolute very best blow job you can until he explosively shoots his nasty gushing wad all over inside your sweet succulent mouth and swallow his yummy tasty cum. Afterwards, when you get home, punish your unaffectionate boyfriend by French kissing him deeply for a good long time, and then tell him, with a big wonderful smile on your face -- what a great day you had!
its scientifically proven that humans are in fact designed to be in a great degree monogamous. stop spreading false info.
It's not exactly false info. Monogamy is "The practice or state of being married and sexually active to one person at a time". Humans seek quality in reproduction (this is where attraction comes from), and thus will have no problem being attracted to those with qualities that please them. The scientific evidence supporting human monogamy only goes as far as the upbringing of offspring.
Otherwise monogamy is "something created and imposed by human beings as a way of managing the intersection of political and social affairs".
Reproduction only comes second to survival and that is sometimes questionable seeing parents jumping into fire to save their children.
We are simultaneously design to be attracted to what we think as the most suitable mate but also stick with him for the uprising of the our offspring and thus we "love". We acquired a brain faction different than most mammals, and its one of the many reasons we are so successful as a specie.
Monogamy is hard for most humans. Don't beat yourself up over societys bullshit ideologies of only being allowed to be with one person. Follow your heart. Or your genitals. Whatever.
1) it;s time you broke up,because this relationship is nothing more to you but a bad habit
2) find someone hot and sexy and have sex
Hmmm so not all guys have fantasies about other girls? Or arent sexually attracted to other girls? Im just asking kuz i always thought thats how all guys thought. I have a bf and would like to know more deeply how a guy thinks.
You can find other people attractive if you're with someone but if your like Sexually attracted to other guys then thats fucked up. You have a boyfriend that you supposedley love and your thinking and fatasizing about other people. If my girlfriend ever told me she shes sexually attracted to other people and fatasizes over other guys id be completely crushed and it would be a deal breaker....If your acting like that and "fantasizing" about other guys then i dont think you really love your current boyfriend.
Having a boyfriend doesn't stop you from being human. It's always normal to be attracted to someone so why should having a boyfriend change that. Just don't cheat because that's messed up.
as long as you dont act on it.
if you act on it and cheat on him, your no better than the shit i just did.
relationships consist of many things, TRUST is one of them.
so either work on it or give up and leave him.
But NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER CHEAT ON HIM.
Thank you
It's normal. I do it all the time, I just haven't acted on it... not to say that I wouldn't act on it, I just haven't been impressed enough by anybody to do more than flirt with them.
I don't know about all this supposed "scientifically proven" stuff but I don't think we're meant to be monogamous either. When other species mate for life, they REALLY stick with that one partner whereas most of us TRY to be monogamous & a good percentage fail miserably.
If monogamy's your thing, stay true to your boyfriend but don't beat yourself up about using the idea of another guy for your little private time pleasures. If it's not, hey... do your thing.
yea its so normal its on natural to star looking at other guys. when i was with my ex for ages i used feel like that but tbh when we broke up i really didnt want look at other guys like that i just wanted him .
When those boys stare at you, give them a coy look back. Accidentally brush your hand over your blouse, caressing your breasts for a moment. Let them see up your skirt. Tell your borfriend you want him to jerk off in front of you. Maybe you can invite his best friend and let him watch.
People who claim that they don't look at anyone aside from their S/O annoy me. Of course you do. Don't be a martyr.
ok lisen to me carefully if he not treating you the way you want him to he an ass date a nothere guy trust me. and good luck babe :)