I have a bf but i’ve been talking to a new guy

hi all. long time no talk. i’m the 20 year old girl with the 29 year old bf. i haven’t posted in awhile because, well, i just haven’t cared to i guess. i don’t care as much as i used to. i went to therapy from march (since the DV incident) to early october. i feel really good and my anxiety is way less. i just feel like a healthier person overall. thanks so much to everyone who has helped me the past 2 years. i know i posted a lot. so thank you.

anyways, i’ve come to the conclusion that i’m going to have to break up with my bf for good sometime soon. i just know i’m not in love with him anymore and i think we’re both still together because we don’t want to be alone... our relationship should have ended a longggg time ago. anyways, recently, i’ve been talking to this guy casually. we met on tinder last year when my current bf and i were temporarily broken up. we never met and everything has been over text. we don’t flirt and he’s really good at respecting my boundaries and understanding i’m in a relationship. i convide in him and he convides in me. recently i’ve been getting these weird feelings for him, but it’s weird because we’ve never actually met in person... idk. is what i’m doing bad rn? there’s no flirting. just let me know what you think