I hate the inlaws

ok so here it is i hate my inlaws and i dont know why they are so nice to me.. and treat me like a part of their family.. but for reason i cant stand to be around them. they get on my nerves really bad. my hubby;s sister lives really close to us and she has never done anything really to me to make me hate her this much but when she walks through my door i cant stand it and when she calls my phone i try my best to ignore her and if i dont answer it she calls my husband and ask where im at. and his mother i find every excuse not to go to her house or be around her.. so please tell me is this normal or am i just hateful?

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71% Normal
Based on 52 votes (37 yes)
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  • dookeyondoodoo

    I feel that way too. I resently took my girls grandmother to the store and everytime she talkd i just wanted to say shit the fuk up!!! BUT SHE WAS BEING NICE SO I WAS LIKE I SAVE IT FOR THE RIGHT TIME

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  • missbojangles

    I think its normal, but hey just thank your lucky stars their nice to you my mother in law told me i was pretty enough to be a PLUS size model im a size 10!!!!

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  • emms1981

    I find my inlaws annoying, I had a facebook account and somehow ended up with my brother sister and mother in law on it and just everything they did started to annoy me. I ended up deleting the account, my mother in law was watching everything I did on there. When she comes round I feel like everything I say is wrong, thats when shes actually bothering to listen to me most of the time she talks over me or walks off when im in the middle of talking, once she actaully came in took my son walked off and got to the front door b4 even saying a word to me! and that was oh um yeah see u later im like yeah thanks

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal

    totally normal though. Countless movies about the subject...

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal

    Felt the same about my ex inlaws. they treated me great, it's just that I didn't like how I felt around them. I always wanted to impress them and that really impeded on my ability to be comfortable around them. Turned into resentment. Then turned into what you're saying here. Just try to relax, and realize that yeah, if you weren't married to their son, you'd have nothing to do with these people, but their son is worth it.

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  • Because they accept & are nice to you, you harbour ill will and begrudge their kindness and publicly scorn them? People who have done nothing to you?

    I pity them and the husband who brought such a nasty twat and ingrate into their lives.

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  • ilovekids!!!!!!!!!<3<3<3

    Ok honey,
    I dont know why I am calling you honey coz ur definatly older than me lol I an nearly 12! xD anyway I put normal coz I think most ppl may feel that way. And you nay think this is a crap answer so go ahead I am just tryna help you but like yeah there isn't a proper definition to the word normal!!! Nothing is normal, yet nothing is not. Basically who are we to judge whether its normal or not? Okayy.. We kinda are but my point is that no matter what anyone thinks at the end of the day its ur opinion. If you truly love your boyfriend/husband then stay with him!! His family may irritate you but I doubt you have ever talked about it?? Maybe try that but in a calm, sensitive way! :) dont just spurt it all out like throwing up!! xD (lol soz its gross but it gives me an idea?) coz then he will think you bad about this and you have been keeping it in 4 ages!!! I dont know if you guys are still together or wat coz I have just read the date :S :D but I am just gonna send it anyway coz 1.) i cba to delete it and 2.) you might still be together and this situation hasn't been sorted. I hope i helped :) best of luck babe xx <3

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  • You should honor the ones who raised your spouse. You kids today got it easy because of folks like them and it's about time you told them just that. Selfish prick.

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