I hate talking to people on the telephone

I was extremely shy growing up, and as a result I only have three close friends but I hardly see them. Otherwise I have no one that I hang out with regularly and essentially have no friends but many acquaintances. I HATE talking to people on the phone and will go out of my way not to call anyone. I rarely if ever talk to my relatives, I am not close to my siblings, and if people call I almost never call back or I wait for days because I don’t want to spend my evening yakking on the phone. I prefer to facebook or e-mail or text. Is this weird?

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  • I do too! Talking on the phone just to talk seems like a big waste of time to me! If you're like, making plans or actually telling someone importsnt stuff then I don't mind it, but when my friends call me I hate it! And they like to talk for like 3 hours straight!! D=... This has always surprised me because I'm a girl..

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  • cleverusername

    I hate talking on the phone too. I am pretty social in real life, but I just hate talking on the phone. I have gotten used to it and can have fairly long conversations with friends, but I still absolutely hate calling businesses and the like. I would have to ask someone else to call to order something over the phone or find out when a business closes because I can't do it.

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  • 5555holdon

    I can talk with friends on a phone just fine, but when it comes to that business situation, I hate it. I just screw up my words and sometimes I want to cry after they hang up.

    Mainly, I like talking to people in real life, I don't have much exp. with video chat, I can chat or email just fine, but telephoning strangers is so hard for me.

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  • chloeann

    i hate calling people on the phone, im fine at answering the phone, but if i need to make a docotors appointment, i would rather drive 3 miles and go to the reception rather than call. if i have to make a phone call i get very anxious, it normally takes me a week to build up to doing it. it took me 3 months to book a dentist appointment cos i didnt want to ring up. i dont know if this is normal!

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  • Bbygirl.

    It's normal, because I was the same way. You might want to try & break out of it though, because MANY people prefer to talk on the phone for awhile. I dated a guy who wanted to talk more than text, so it forced me to wanna break out of it & compromise.

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  • huntergirl91

    I hate taking on the phone also. I will go out of my way to avoid it. It's odd but totally normal.

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  • sperminator

    Very normal. I never answer the phone.

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  • Malk

    *agrees with cleverusername*

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