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i'm a teenager girl and i really hate sex i don't know if that's normal or not but i'm pretty sure that i'm not the only one that hate sex
but i really like boys , i like going out with them , making out with boys but the real act of sex! i just hate it
it sownds creepy to me !
No, you don't hate sex. You hate the idea of sex because you are immature and ignorant about the matter because you have never tried it before. You are probably even too young to be on this website. Even so, your anxiousness/reluctance is completely normal. If you find the right guy, I'm sure he'd probably convince you otherwise. You shouldn't even be worried about sex right now anyway. Focus on other things in your life.
Have you had it before? Could be some anxiety about your first time which is very normal
So you don't know what sex actually is like? Have sex and then make your decision. You don't know what sex is like yet to claim you hate it, only claim you hate what you think it will be.
I'm not saying you'll like sex one you have it, I personally was let down when I first had sex, and the second, and so on because the talk of it was far bigger than the actual pleasure you get out of it, but you should try it first...Ofcourse, if you are at an age that allows you to.
Thats just fear talking once you have sex u are gonna want it more and more kind of like a baby it doesnt drink water from the time its born but after its first encounter with water it starts getting thirsty
A lot of people are telling you "You haven't had sex, so how can you know whether you like it or not?" My response to them would be "Have you had sex with the same gender (or the opposite if you're gay)? If not, how do you know you are straight (or gay)?"
Anyway, I would explore a website called Aven. You may find a lot of people there who have had the same experience as you. When I was in high school, everyone told be I would become sexual. Like you, I was one who got crushes and could even experience sexual arousal, but the idea of sex was a complete turn off. I'm not saying you are an asexual because you may not be, but I think you should look into it. You may discover a lot about yourself. I didn't discover what my sexuality was until just over a year ago. I'm 22 now. I know that it can be very confusing, especially when you're in high school and the one thing on everyone's mind is sex yet you do not feel the same. But I encourage you to go to Aven, read other people's stories, and talk to them. You will likely find that there are a lot of people who are like you and you will be able to help each other out on this confusing topic. Sex is a very complicated matter. It is never simply black and white.
Good luck to you!
How old are you? You seem too young to be considering having sex anyway. No offense.
Does "it sownds creepy to me" mean you haven't even tried it yet?
Boy, are you in for a wonderful surprise!
One word of warning, though. When the time comes to do the "deed", don't do it with some little boy your age. Young boys are totally selfish in sex and they will not be as attentive to your needs as someone should be, when initiating a young girl into the joys of sex.