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I find it repugnant that some men and women seem to enjoy messing around on a girlfriend or boyfriend husband or wife. I despise it and I don't understand why some people feel the need to fuck around behind someone's back. Is it wrong to feel this way or am I being to over dramatic. Words can not describe how I feel about cheaters.
| You are being over dramatic. | 13 | |
| You are completely right about scum who do that. | 47 |
If youre going to cheat break up with your current partner and do whatever the hell you want without worrying about being caught..
Yeah its awful. Thats why it's called "cheating." You're in a monogamous relationship you need to follow the rules of monogamy or don't get in/stay in a relationship. It is a terrible character flaw to be unfaithful to a partner. There are plenty of people who are just fine staying single and seeing multiple people. There's no reason to hurt someone you profess to care about by cheating on them. Not to mention the possibility the cheater could get and spread an std to the innocent partner.
There is no point to be in a relationship if you are going to mess with your partner emotions. You might as well be single and be able to do whatever the hell you want without thinkin you will get caught
If it's a loveless marriage then that person(male or female) should leave rather play games. I understand that it's not simple most times but it's not always the case.
You're free to believe whatever you want about me, but you don't know a thing about me or my sex life at all. I stand by my statement that cheaters and the people with whom they cheat are selfish, cowardly and lack any sort of moral compass. I never feel sorry when bad things happen to people who are in any way involved in infidelity of any kind.
Nothing personal. People who are unhappy in their relationships have two choices, they can either go to couples counseling with their partners or choose to leave the relationship. It might be painful to do the right thing in this life, but it's not that hard.
There are legal problems you are ignoring. Almost all attorneys in all states recommend that you avoid divorce on the grounds of cruelty, because it very often results in legal fees that leave both parties penniless. My point is that after you have told your spouse goodbye, yes, an affair is often the right thing to do. It is not selfish, nor cowardly, nor immoral. It is a mature acknowledgement of your sexual identity, and constructive action toward a better future.
Cheater's are disgusting. They make me sick. They might as well not be in a relationship and just continue to mess around with other people instead.
Give yourself a pat on the back. Cheaters are ignorant and deep down don't like who they are with so go out of their way to find some variety.
Ah, it’s a victimless crime. Just get yourself $130,000 and you’ll be fine!
It's curious that not a single one of you mentioned an alternative lifestyle such as polyamory. Are you so brainwashed that you can't think of any other relationship model other than monogamy??
People who believe infidelity is acceptable are untrustworthy opportunists who are emotionally stunted.
If you're "adult" enough to get married, you ought to be adult enough to honestly talk to your partner, who is supposed to be your closest ally, which is why cheating is so fucking selfish, weak, and malicious.
No. We can, and should exercise self-control, especially when not to do so means inflicting pain on someone who trusts us.
Humans have the ability to reason. With that, comes responsibility and expectations to behave in prosocial ways. Giving in to our baser instincts for the sake of temporary pleasure is pathetic, self-centered and depraved. If that's the best a person has to offer, they're a sad sack indeed.
EDIT to add absent "is" between pleasure and pathetic