I think this is normal... I kind of do this too. I'm really not a 'people person'.
A few years ago, I began to wonder why this is, and I think it's because everyone else makes me feel like I'm the 'odd one out'. I've kind of embraced the fact that I prefer being on my own most of the time, because the shit people talk about really bores the shit out of me, which just left me feeling alienated. Even if I have a nice conversation with people, the next day I'll have convinced myself that the person is stupid and has nothing in common with me.
The way I dealt with it was just to be more positive about everything and everyone - most of the time, people just meander through life in auto-mode. Most people really can't help that they're annoying, and you have to make a conscious effort to concentrate on all the positive things you like about them, even if your instinct is concentrate on their faults.
I hate people for no reason...??
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I think this is normal... I kind of do this too. I'm really not a 'people person'.
A few years ago, I began to wonder why this is, and I think it's because everyone else makes me feel like I'm the 'odd one out'. I've kind of embraced the fact that I prefer being on my own most of the time, because the shit people talk about really bores the shit out of me, which just left me feeling alienated. Even if I have a nice conversation with people, the next day I'll have convinced myself that the person is stupid and has nothing in common with me.
The way I dealt with it was just to be more positive about everything and everyone - most of the time, people just meander through life in auto-mode. Most people really can't help that they're annoying, and you have to make a conscious effort to concentrate on all the positive things you like about them, even if your instinct is concentrate on their faults.