I hate myself iin?

I HATE myself! Some people have low self confidence, but I literally wish I was a completly different person.
I don't see a single thing about myself that's good. I'm just some ordinary boring person. I don't see anything pretty or beautiful about myself, nothing that shines! I have poop eyes, that's what my brother calls my brown eyes, dull brown hair, a big nose and I feel like I'm fat.
And I'm not smart at all people are alway commenting on my spelling, and I hate it, it makes me feel so dumb and stupid. It's just hard, and it embarresses me when someone says to me , you know you spelling that wrong.
So over all I think I'm ugly, dumb and over all not a very good person.
I hate myself.
Is it normal?

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57% Normal
Based on 56 votes (32 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • Heh?

    Your honesty is beautiful.

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  • dirty_Narcissus

    Oh, sorry but someone gotta say. You are right. You should hate yourself. You are a loser, hate yourself for hating yourself. Might sound complicated, but still that's the reality.

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  • bleach_baby

    *embarrasses

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  • scumfuck

    you sound like a loser... get some self esteem

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  • wibamuftw

    I felt that way before, completely normal... Until my brother said something to me that made so much sense I realized I was just being stupid. He's super wise by the way so get ready for this. He said to me, he said "Kayla, if you truly hated yourself you wouldn't be so sad about it. Think of it this way, if you hate someone, you don't feel sad for them because you hate them. Do you? No. Because one who truly hates their self would be happy that they were sad. You just feel unfortunate that you don't possess the characteristics which you desire."

    Some motivational words though. Next time your brother tells you, you have poopy eyes. Be thankful that you have eyes to see, brown eyes, by the way, are sexy. And the next time you think your brown hair is boring and dull, be proud cause you're a sexy brunette, and be thankful that you have hair at all. And the next time you think your nose is big, be thankful you have a nose at all! And the next time you feel fat, be thankful you have enough food to make you feel that way. And you're probably not fat anyway, most people who think they're fat aren't fat and most people who get extremely offended when you call them fat are fat. But anyway that isn't a big deal! People are always freaking out about weight it's such an easy thing to control it's not even funny. Last but not least, the next time you think you're not smart, remember that you got to this website, and you made a post on isitnormal.com and you have a good background on reading and writing. Grammar mistakes are pish posh, people seriously get mad when someone makes a facebook post and spells something wrong, if you understand it, what's the big deal? Ugh I'm always rambling at 1 am.

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  • rulerofthenight

    aww I am sorry you feel this way. I've been there infact I am still half way there. It's going to take a long time for oyu to accept yourself anf eventually learn to love yourself, all of this can be learded . I know it's hard not to care what other people say bc even if you don't their voice still echos in your head. and they are realy hard to get out. try different things like positive talk , you know every morning when you get up tell yourself soemthing beautiful abotu yourself, even if you feel like it's not true you have to make a positive voice to take over the negetive ones in your head.and the whole spelling thing. it's just a spell it isn't set in stones, sometimes when we feel liek we are ugly and stupid we give up and let our appearnce go i am not making any presumption that you don't shower or anything, but try to improve your self appearnce and good hygiens.I hope this helps but all in all i want you to know that this feeling is normal, too many people feel this way .

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  • Augustpeach

    Oh man I've been there so many times. But what can you do? I think self acceptance Will allow you to see the good in yourself. And don't let what people tell you determine how you feel about yourself because you're the only person who can judge you

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  • qwerty22

    Most people that think they are fat and ugly or stupid are normally the exact opposite.

    And every one has something there good at but maybe spelling just isn't what your best at so just try different things because everyone is smart in some way.

    I know lots of people that used to be like that but they found something that they are good at and now they have alot of self confidence.

    (Lots of people can't spell very good.)

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