I hate myself.

Listen to me and listen closely:there isn't a single human being who is "ugly", even the ones who are like deformed or whaterever can look really good! I knew a girl with a weird lip thing I don't how is it called in english (in spanish is "labio leporino") and she still looked gorgeous in her Qunceañera party.
What I'm trying to say is that no matter how big you are you are still beautiful. And drop that "I'll look ugly in pretty clothes" anybody can look good in the right clothes. And maybe you should loose weight for health sake, but that's not the end of the world.
If anything you should be grateful that you have a boyfriend that loves you and thinks you're beautiful, and a baby (I mean you were pregnant). Gorgeous folks would kill for that.
So, don't hate yourself; you're marvellous just in the way you are.

P.D. BTW there are many guys who think big girls are better, think about it.

Being fat doesn't make you ugly , or being ugly shouldn't make you feel sad. You can think you look ugly , but I don't really think that you're ugly. Yes , I've never seen you. However I know that every single person on earth is beautiful. I don't know if you're and Muslim , Christian , Jewish or Atheist. However , you should think like "God had created us as beautiful creatures and we are all different". Adele is not slim , but she's still very pretty. Barack Obama is black , but he is still good-looking. I'm wearing glasses , but everyone say that I'm looking very good when I wear those glasses. These things are not big problems. If you're a nice person , it makes you the most beautiful person on the world. These sentences can seem a little bit cliche , but they're true. Just be a nice person , and rest of them will be unnecessary.

Nobodys ugly. Plus i like a little heaviness on girls, but like the first girl said, just lose weight for health sake.

aww :( dont feel that way!!!!

seriously being skinny sucks though, people call you anorexic! even if your not!! (this is my situation..)

You are what you think you are. Instead of wanting to be "skinny" set a goal on being Healthy and your dreams of being skinny will just be a bonus.

Youu should Love yourself<3

For people who told u loose weight , m telling u and them ,u won't love ur self f u loose weight caz the u'll have another issue to hate ur self for , I know t's kind of hard to be convinced completely
But t does worth to give t a try
M sure u'll feel happy then
"-" wish all the best for you

Thanxx God

Why t's always hard for us to say thaks God

Say (thanks god), u have two eyes you have legs and nose , what f u wake up one day with ur feet paralyzed or with facial palsy and don't tell me t can't happened caz I have afriend who lose her feet and her dad n a car accident
By the way she had a very nice body and she s very skinny but with no legs

Yikes. How depressing. Change things...find clothes that fit your body, and deal with the fact that you are who you are now. Bodies change, for the worse AND for the better.

Your boyfriend is not "depressed" by this, he is annoyed by it. If he loves you, then he loves you inside and out. You should, too.

Get a hobby. Exercise. Come up with a plan. Volunteer. Give blood. Get your ass out of that depressing gutter that you're stuck in. It's just a phase, if you let it be. Don't let it ruin your life or your relationships.

You're beautiful. Look in the mirror and tell yourself what you like about yourself. If you need help getting started, have your boyfriend stand behind you and tell you what he loves. You'll start seeing it, too.

Only you can make the changes in your life

Realize this: at least u have a boyfriend. Someone who cares about u means a lot. Ugly or not, ur not alone.

Go to a gym, go for a walk outside, eat healthy food! Engaging in some kind of physical acitivity and eating good foods help you mental state and make you feel better. So, you can lose weight and feel better about yourself all at the same time.

Yay RandomTrojan!I love you!!!best advice:lose weight..,

How much do u weigh?

:( Why be so down in the dumps when we have The Beatles :):) They always make me happy and forgot my worries. I love you, George!!

You sound a bit down on yourself. Have you talked with your family doctor about your feelings postpartum?

What you're describing is normal. But you should still be thankful for what you have. Most people want to be skinny in order to be attractive to others, and you have a partner who is attracted to you. He probably gets depressed when you talk about it because he hates seeing you so unhappy with yourself.

eh, chillax, i'm heavier than my father, it's nothin

I feel for you. You have been steadily gaining weight. You don't know why it's happening or what to do about it. People tell you to do this or do that, and nothing seems to work. You see others around you gaining weight, and it seems inevitable that you are predestined to live a life of corpulence.

Don't despair. You can be skinny again. I've done it, and so can you. It just takes reliable information and a bit of persistence.

The cause of obesity has been discovered, but few people actually know about it. It has nothing to do with overeating or lack of exercise. Obesity is caused by eating foods that are abundant in carbohydrates, particularly refined carbohydrates. Such foods raise the insulin level in the bloodstream, which promotes fat accumulation in the majority of people. Sadly, most nutritionists don't know or appreciate this.

You can get rid of this excess fat by eliminating the cause, by going on a *low-carbohydrate* diet. This means eating foods that are very low in carbohydrate, high in fat, with moderate amounts of protein. Don't eat bread, potatoes, pasta, rice, pastries, or anything containing sugar or flour. Do eat meat, fish, eggs, cheese, and butter. Get one of the popular low-carb diet books to help you with this. Join a low-carb online forum.

A low-carbohydrate diet is the only solution that will permanently solve your problem. Low-calorie and low-fat diets do not work, and are very unhealthy. Exercise will help you tone muscle, but will not get rid of the fat.

If you want some inspiration, search the net for a guy named Jimmy Moore. He used to weigh 410 lbs, went on a low-carbohydrate diet, eventually going down to about 230 lbs. Look at his before and after photos. He now runs his own web site. If he can do it, so can you.