I hate my mother

I'm 18 and I hate my mother so much I can't call her mom. I know being 18 it's so normal that you hate your mom, but it's not like hate her because she doesn't let me go to the movies, it's hate her as a person, and I've hated her since I was like 12. I've read some of other people's "I hate my mom" stories, but I mean, I really hate my mother.
She never told me she loves me; she's always in my room; if my phone rings, she always asks who it is; she very limited in the way of being gay is anti-natural; she thinks I'm her maid so if I don't clean the dishes or do something like that once or twice she'll be "oh, do you know how much work I had today? and you get home and sit with your laptop and don't even do the dishes?"; she doesn't support me in anything - I love movies and series and I want to go live in the United States but she doesn't care about anything other than me doing the things she wants me to do. And I can't go talk to her about anything because she'll be "oh, that's a stupidity!" or we'll end up just fighting.

She's just the kind of person I wouldn't like to meet in any occasion. Problem is she's my mother.
So is this normal, to dread your mother?

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72% Normal
Based on 85 votes (61 yes)
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  • Ms.Caffinated

    It's normal if your mom Deserves it :/ Cindy and I havent had a proper relationship since I was 5. I truely can say That I don't love her. You don't have to love your mother if it's your choice, You just need to move away from her. You'll have a better relationship if your not constantly being forced to be around each other.

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  • KeyboardSolo

    It happens. I was in a similar situation. The best thing I ever did was move away to another city and leave that toxic situation behind.

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  • katthazzalovfu

    I hate my mother so much. She is always yelling at me for nothing. She degrade me in front of everyone and insult me everyday. She is a total bitch. I have never hated anyone more than her. She always tell me how my father is wrong but my she is the one which is wrong. Whenever any guests come she turns into this perfect mother. She is so annoying and always nagging me.

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  • Crunch

    My mom and me used to get along, but as puberty set in and teenage years went by, we've grown apart.
    She is an extreme overacheiver, and if my life wasn't perfectly organized all hell went loose. In high school, she would read through every single assignment,and if I didn't get a B+ at the least, she would ask the teacher if I could resubmit the whole thing. Once she even made me redo an entire semester's worth of science exams, all because I had a C+ in science that year. Se made me sit down and tutor me through the whole curriculum for at least an hour each day. She was so harsh that I would run to my room and cry after each session.
    My dad is a much better parent to me, but he is a doctor and spends all his time at work.
    When things got really bad, I would try and tell them how I felt, and they would understand. They would try for around a week, but after that things got back to normal.
    My parents have never abused me in any way, just to set that straight. Nevertheless, we never seem to get along, and I don't really recall a recent conversation we've had that didn't end in a fight. I do my best, really I do, but when my parents start walking all over me I feel like suffocating, lose control, and try to leave before I do something I'll regret.
    A few years ago, we moved to a new place and I was depressed. I even came very close to suicide on multiple occasions. In the end, my friends helped me get through it. I don't think my parents actually ever noticed my yearlong depression.
    I tried telling them, but all I got was "you're too young to know what depression is. Stop talking about things you don't understand."
    And that was it. Somehow they overlooked the rope marks on my neck and the scars on my wrists.

    I think I still love my parents, but I moving away and leaving this toxic atmosphere as soon as I can.

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  • manfart999

    holy shit... shes a bitch. I mean really? call child abuse... good god did you over exxagurate? cuz the way u said it thats child abuse.*shakes head slowly* shes the mother from hell aint she

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  • Awesomesaucerock

    Most teens go through a phase where they absolutley think their mom or dad is the most horrible person in the world. Try to do something with her, or maybe she's just stressed.

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  • scumfuck

    shitty people get kids too sometimes their kids end up to be sane normal people of course this is normal. i hate my mother too.

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  • thekat444

    its normal i feel d same way,i hate my mother with all my hearth, i think she is the worst most horrible annoying person in d face of the earth, im living at home now, but i cant wait to move out n never c her face again or hear about her in my life.. ahhh such a relief saying that..lol

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  • jap*hime19

    Going through the same thing, now living with my grandmother, so yes, ABSOLUTELY normal.

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  • bleach_baby

    What an incredibly trivial list of complaints. Sounds like you get on each others nerves and need to move out really

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    • KeyboardSolo

      Those examples may (arguably) be trivial, but it shows a larger picture of a person's attitude, feelings, and lack of respect for their child (and likely everyone else).

      Selfish wastes of flesh can still breed, you know. Popping out a child doesn't fix deep character flaws.

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      • fearless11

        I do have to agree on that. Thanks for commenting! I don't feel like such a freak :)

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