In your case it seems quite understandable that you hate her. however on a more spiritual level forgiveness and compassion are good qualities. This is not nessesarily to benefit your mother, but for your own sake. When you forgive someone you can finally learn to let go rather than continuing to feel like a victim and having the abuse repeated over and over in your head. Ollieo's suggestions seem very wise also in helping to move on and come to terms with it.
I hate my mother
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In your case it seems quite understandable that you hate her. however on a more spiritual level forgiveness and compassion are good qualities. This is not nessesarily to benefit your mother, but for your own sake. When you forgive someone you can finally learn to let go rather than continuing to feel like a victim and having the abuse repeated over and over in your head. Ollieo's suggestions seem very wise also in helping to move on and come to terms with it.