I don't know if everyone story is worst than mine but me and my mom don't get along. I dont know if i"d say I hate her but I don't like her. I don't like the way she talks because she say whatever comes to her mine without aknowledging other people's feelings. I have a little bro and a little sis and the way she is wid them is tottally different than the way she treats me and I'm not exagerating. Everytime I do something its never good enough for her. She got pregnant of me when she was 16 and I'm 17 and no kids, she didn't go through high school and I graduated but she still thinks I'm a slack of. Sometimes I really feel like I'm adopted and when I think about it, I think that it would be the perfect reason why she is treating me the way that she is but I look a bit like her so that's impossible so I think the reason why she hates me is because she thinks that I ruined her life. I really don't know what to do to make her be proud or even like me , I did everything that a person can do and it still seem like its not working.
I hope your doing ok. You should pray about it, it would be good to talk to someone with higher power and just talk about it AND everything. God is there and loves the talks, he may even talk back. I was going through foster care and i was crying my eyes out and screaming at God, and he replied to my needs and pain. He dosent speak to eveyone but you may be one of the few. Trust. Put your problem in God's hand and it will be ok. But even so you should talk to someone like a counselor, or a family memeber that you trust that can give you legit help, and don't be afraid to speak out for help. First don't try to live for your mom's approval, if she has a problem with you that's her issue. I would say ask her why she treats you such a way. Of course I never asked my mom why she did the things she did because I couldn't be nice about it. But as long as she hasnt threatened you or put her hands on you for her own hidden reasons I hope your not scared to speak up or speak out. I know it may be hard but treat your mom like you love her. Even though I didn't like my mom I still love her and always want the best for her no matter how things are. Be the bigger person but nit in a way that you seem to be showing off. I would say just ask her, you didn't say if you did anything to provoke her but it is up to you to clear the air. I hope you do and are doing ok.
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I don't know if everyone story is worst than mine but me and my mom don't get along. I dont know if i"d say I hate her but I don't like her. I don't like the way she talks because she say whatever comes to her mine without aknowledging other people's feelings. I have a little bro and a little sis and the way she is wid them is tottally different than the way she treats me and I'm not exagerating. Everytime I do something its never good enough for her. She got pregnant of me when she was 16 and I'm 17 and no kids, she didn't go through high school and I graduated but she still thinks I'm a slack of. Sometimes I really feel like I'm adopted and when I think about it, I think that it would be the perfect reason why she is treating me the way that she is but I look a bit like her so that's impossible so I think the reason why she hates me is because she thinks that I ruined her life. I really don't know what to do to make her be proud or even like me , I did everything that a person can do and it still seem like its not working.
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I hope your doing ok. You should pray about it, it would be good to talk to someone with higher power and just talk about it AND everything. God is there and loves the talks, he may even talk back. I was going through foster care and i was crying my eyes out and screaming at God, and he replied to my needs and pain. He dosent speak to eveyone but you may be one of the few. Trust. Put your problem in God's hand and it will be ok. But even so you should talk to someone like a counselor, or a family memeber that you trust that can give you legit help, and don't be afraid to speak out for help. First don't try to live for your mom's approval, if she has a problem with you that's her issue. I would say ask her why she treats you such a way. Of course I never asked my mom why she did the things she did because I couldn't be nice about it. But as long as she hasnt threatened you or put her hands on you for her own hidden reasons I hope your not scared to speak up or speak out. I know it may be hard but treat your mom like you love her. Even though I didn't like my mom I still love her and always want the best for her no matter how things are. Be the bigger person but nit in a way that you seem to be showing off. I would say just ask her, you didn't say if you did anything to provoke her but it is up to you to clear the air. I hope you do and are doing ok.