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I've hated my mother for a while no all my friends think I'm weird cuz I don't like my own mother.I hate the way she yells at me for everything her and my dad got a devorse and I said I was going to my dads and she hade a bitch fit at me. I HATE HER
I really just wanna know if it's normal
I think it's normal that you hate your mother, but this isn't going to do you any good. This has got to stop!
I've hated my mother my whole life. It wasn't the abuse why I hated her. She waited till I was 55 years old to tell me she abandoned me for the first week of my life. Permanent damage right there.
Remember be a good person be kind and you will be happy. You are normal and there is a reason for everything. You may not know the reason yet but you have feelings talking to you. You are perfectly normal.
It's normal to fall out with your mum and resent her for things and for us poor mums it's normal for teen girls to blame us for everything wrong in their lives, chances are your mum is just as upset as you about the drift between you. But just remember that, she loves you.you might not agree with her right now but most girls grow up and realise that mum was right all along even if at the time you thought they were completely wrong. The divorce will be really hurtful her as she thought she found her prince and for whatever reason, it wasn't the prince right for her but she will be good at covering it up from you because that's what we do, protect you from our feelings and broken hearts... I'm sure the devorce has ripped your world apart too and it must be hurting... you need to talk to your mum about all your feelings and try your hardest to see things from her side. Because I promise you, it's not easy. And I think it would be much worse if she had just gone"fine whatever go your dads" because then she wouldn't love you and need you... try and think about that. You haven't said why they split but any devorce messes everyone involved up. Try and be there for her and more understanding, it only takes one of you to make the first move to a better relationship... all I've said is only true if she isn't hurting or neglecting you.. if she is. And you want to go, go to your dads. But if she isn't but she's being strict and moody,,, try and cut her some slack and remember it's because she loves you