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i don't now what to do my friend is better then me in every way he looks better, has more friends, people love him hes my friend but when ever i think of him or see him i get really depressed or so angry i want to kill him i no its jealousy and every thing, but i know if u saw him every1 of u who is reading this would choose him over me it pisses me off i need someone to give me some advice or something to reflect on
Haha i feel the same way about my friend. I later told some people about this and asked if they felt the same way about him. They told me no, they said they were jealous of me, I asked them, WHY? they said that i was much better looking then him and them. I guess it was all in my head.
Is your friend treating you badly? If not, you should be glad he's your friend. It's hard to find a great person who is also a good friend.
Remember, it's not his fault you suck, if he didn't exist you would still suck equally. Various other inevitable failures would remind you of it. So if he's a good friend, just accept yourself as you are and be glad you have a great friend.
Ok man, I have had similar feelings about people all my life.
Because of feelings of inadequacy and jealousy, there is almost no relationship I have that is free of some subtle type of aggression.
But the solution is easy: Dont be his freind. By feeling you have to cover over your feelings, or PRETEND TO BE A DIFFERENT PERSON, you are constantly disemplowering yourself. In all kinds of situaitons you will just supress/ignore the feelings that are underneath and act like others do. DONT DO IT man. I am not saying you should yell at him, attack him, or take out your aggression in any way, because he may not have done anything wrong, but all the same, stop pretending. You have to be youself man.
I know how you mean. My friend annoys me so much to a point I ignor her attention seeking and I realise I'm meaner to her in public. I guess you just want the attention your friend is getting. Maybe you should try and find another group of friends you can be around and feel comfortable in.
It's like you are both on stage but one of you is taking the limelight. So outstage them.