I hate my family

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for years and years i tried to do everything i possibly could for my kids, even to the point of doing without alot for myself. the ungrateful little fucks have yet to even think about me on holidays. they run to their dads house because he has more money than i do. i wish i hadn't have been so giving. maybe today i'd have a decent bed to sleep in, decent clothes. i get to see my grandson only when i have money to buy time with him. my daughter calls and mentions that she needs tires, eyeglasses etc always around a holiday. i've noticed that if i don't offer to pay, i don't see my grandson on the holiday. she's a real bitch, i can't believe i gave birth to her and raised her. amazing how someone with money can have such an effect on your kids, and love, dedication and being there means nothing. i honestly don't ever want to talk to her again, but i can't stop answering her when she calls.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    The harshness & bitterness with which you talk of your offspring speaks volumes to the kind of relationships you have and I am sorry that you have not done well there or in life in general. You can't lay all your unhappiness at their feet however.

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  • ImATrolol
    12 years ago

    That is how all kids are.

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  • Leela
    13 years ago

    I'm with you, I come from very big family. I called it Rainbow family. Most of us are adopted from all over the world. My mom also best friend role moddel too. To this day, I love my mom very much. I even told her that. But, all my syblings have her turned againist me. I've not seen any of the family for over 10yrs. now. I hate them all. If had the money, I would change my last name with out any regrets. Last names brings up, the hate in me.

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  • klhunter32
    13 years ago

    I hate that you are going through these issues with your family. We live in a society that is self absorbed and selfish. Unfortunately, your family does not appreciate you and all that you have given of yourself. When your family least expect it they will regret how they have treated you. I do believe in KARMA and your circumstance can change but when you are blessed be more cautious. Family can oftentimes treat you worse than a person in the street because they take you forgranted. I, say, treat them with a long handed spoon your blessing will come.

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    I feel you I'm only 21 but I can tell the kids these days are straight up spoiled bitches they need to get beat down.

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  • issyxy
    14 years ago

    thats very sad i don't have kids but i hope i never have kids like that just don't give your kids to much and they MAY!!! not be so ungreatfull 2 u.

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  • karma_is_bs
    14 years ago

    I'm sorry your daughter is so ungreatfull.My advice is to start living your life and if her father has so much money, just let him help her out financially.you brought her into the world and did your best to raise her.you didn't tell her to have a child so your grandson is not your responsibility.she shouldn't have made the decision to have a child if she couldn't provide for it.

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  • iHatemF
    14 years ago

    "We must be kind to our parents."

    I think your daughter has been raised a tad too spoiled. Question though, why the heck does she need money? If she has a kid she's either a housewife or works to get money to raise her child. Since she's so in need of money she should ask her husband, if she doesn't have one I can see why he left her.

    Don't shower her with money ever again, she's just using you and threatening you with your grandson.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Yeah, I can't stand my family either, which is sad because I love my in-laws.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    you are not alone. why is it that young adults still only think of themselves as if they are still teens. parents always go without for the brats, yet, they don't seem to notice or appreciate it.

    i think many of us have made the mistake of being too good to them. they got so much more than we did, yet expect even more than that.

    maybe you should start saving your holiday money and instead of spending it on her and her child, spend it on yourself. better yet, spend it away from home.

    also, get caller id if you don't have it, and just manage to get every other call. if she's so tied up in herself and stupid not to notice that her behavior is affecting you, so be it.

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