I hate my dad iin

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I hate my Dad. He has never taught me anything about how to be a man. He never got married to my mum and he abused her when we were younger. He used to say that she couldn't watch TV when it was her tha bought it. She finally kicked him out when we i was ten and i didn't speak to him or see him for about 4 years. In all that time he never even bothered making contact with his kids (me and my sister) He's also incredibly selfish and whenever i'd ask him for money he'd always say that he's broke when he's just bought something new for himself. I honestly believe that he's the most useless piece of skin and bone that's ever walked this planet. Even Hitler was loved by some. I don't think anyone apart from his own mother whom he hasn't conatced in over 10 years loves him and i'm not even too sure about that. I hate how everyday i resemble him more and more. I inherited nothing good from him. When we lived with him he'd just spoil himself while we starved. To this day i still dont know where my mum found him or why she stayed with him for that long. If he died today, i wouldn't be happy nor sad. I just wouldn't give a DAMN. I'm 19 now and i haven't spoken to him for about 2 years and i'd be happy if i never saw or heard from him again, and if he died i wouldn't go to his funeral. Is that normal?

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  • yermaw1998
    11 years ago | pl

    My uncle died he was a drug addict but he was loved by people infact every1 loved him he was the most nicest man i knew, me and mu brother were like his own kids becase he had 4 kids of his own but there mum left scotland to ireland and he never saw his 4 children for 8 year and he died on october 2011, but he saw his oldest two only 9 month b4 he died. Anyway his son Euan 15 years old came over for his dads funeral and then 3 days b4 the funeral he lft bk 2 ireland and he secretly speaks 2 me behind everyones back and he said that he hates his father so much because he didnt contact him but really his dad did try and contact him but his mum secrectly behind her childrens back told him that the kids didnt want him... so maybe your dad has tryed 2 contact u and hes maybe changed, so y not u try and contact him and try and get 2 know him more because he could have changed u never know xxx

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  • mimilecious
    12 years ago | pl

    It is surely normal!! U r right man! He is not a father! He doesn't deserve that title anyway nd trust me he'll regret it later! U have to b strong! B independant nd act like he's already dead! U don't need him!

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  • squeegela
    12 years ago | pl

    Seems like the best way to make peace is to prove to yourself that just because you share genetics doesn't mean u r like him. Sounds like u don't want to be anything like him and I think that's a great choice! I'm not one to say that you should always forgive, sometimes it's just possible. Just don't be him, don't ever compromise who you want to be and be proud of the choice you have made. You are already well on your way! Good luck!

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  • crazysykokiller
    12 years ago | pl

    i do

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  • adgjmptw
    12 years ago | pl

    Well kind of same problem here...and the solution is forgiveness.every man needs love and u have to show him love.go to him and hug him and say dad i love u..tell him that u r really affected by his bad nature.try this once..still if this doesnt makes out with him then just throw him out of ur life!

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  • bleach_baby
    12 years ago | pl

    he sounds like a bit of a cunt, on the other hand if you don't make peace with this it's going to affect you in later life, especially if you say you're inadvertently starting to resemble him... you need to get rid of the anger or it'll hold you back and he'll have won

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      Hey thanks for your reply how would you suggest i make my peace with this?

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