Nope, I just don't want any sort of additional responsibilities, besides sometimes kids can be rough with animals which is completely unacceptable to me. I would be "missing out" if I went with a person who had children even if the children were nice, but allergic to dogs and cats. I've never wanted to share my home and my life with anything other than a biological child of my own. For people with children the children will always come first; I understand this very well, because for me my cat always comes first. I will NEVER put another person's human baby before my feline and or canine baby or babies, but its natural for people with kids to expect that sort of thing.
Not everyone wants children. I lived with my cousin's kids for two months, and although I love them it could get noisy, too noisy for my tastes. I am really grateful that they were all pretty much animal people!
I might feel differently if I were closer to 30 than to 50, regardless badly behaved children and even children with bad allergies are not people I care to have in my life, and especially not in my home.
Too much trouble. If I found mister right tomorrow, and could conceive my own healthy children it might be a different story, and I mean might, be a different story.
So you're a cat lady? lol.
Fair enough. Kids aren't for everyone. Some just good enough to be able to hand back to the parents.
Some parents shouldn't even be parents in my book.
I wouldn't say I am entirely a cat lady per say, I'm a Siamese cat lady. More specifically I'm a cat and a dog person. I tend to prefer intelligent, affectionate dog-like purebred cats, not just any old cat will do.
My grandmother loved cats, and she was the type that someone would just bring her a cat or kitten, and she would be happy, but I'm not like that at all. My cat is strictly indoors, well trained, and gets bathes too. My Siamese cat is better trained than a lot of dogs. My cat is also pampered, but he deserves it, because he is so good.
I think if I had become a parent I would have been relatively strict. I don't have a lot of patience for bad behavior. I don't like it when people let their children act like wild animals. I personally think people are being way too hard on OP. Still when it comes to dating for me someone having kids is certainly not a plus, at least not from the get go.
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Nope, I just don't want any sort of additional responsibilities, besides sometimes kids can be rough with animals which is completely unacceptable to me. I would be "missing out" if I went with a person who had children even if the children were nice, but allergic to dogs and cats. I've never wanted to share my home and my life with anything other than a biological child of my own. For people with children the children will always come first; I understand this very well, because for me my cat always comes first. I will NEVER put another person's human baby before my feline and or canine baby or babies, but its natural for people with kids to expect that sort of thing.
Not everyone wants children. I lived with my cousin's kids for two months, and although I love them it could get noisy, too noisy for my tastes. I am really grateful that they were all pretty much animal people!
I might feel differently if I were closer to 30 than to 50, regardless badly behaved children and even children with bad allergies are not people I care to have in my life, and especially not in my home.
Too much trouble. If I found mister right tomorrow, and could conceive my own healthy children it might be a different story, and I mean might, be a different story.
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So you're a cat lady? lol.
Fair enough. Kids aren't for everyone. Some just good enough to be able to hand back to the parents.
Some parents shouldn't even be parents in my book.
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I wouldn't say I am entirely a cat lady per say, I'm a Siamese cat lady. More specifically I'm a cat and a dog person. I tend to prefer intelligent, affectionate dog-like purebred cats, not just any old cat will do.
My grandmother loved cats, and she was the type that someone would just bring her a cat or kitten, and she would be happy, but I'm not like that at all. My cat is strictly indoors, well trained, and gets bathes too. My Siamese cat is better trained than a lot of dogs. My cat is also pampered, but he deserves it, because he is so good.
I think if I had become a parent I would have been relatively strict. I don't have a lot of patience for bad behavior. I don't like it when people let their children act like wild animals. I personally think people are being way too hard on OP. Still when it comes to dating for me someone having kids is certainly not a plus, at least not from the get go.