Hes only 4 years old. Everything hes doing sounds like normal 4 year old stuff.
Sounds like you need to stop being impatient and take a different approach. I used to hate my nephew for all of the same reasons and then some. Then i realized hes not a terror, hes a kid. He doesn't know better. So instead of getting all impatient and annoyed just calm down and try to teach him in a fun way. And if he makes you that angry then remove YOURSELF from the environment.
Thats your bfs kid. You can change bfs. He can't change kids. Either learn to get along with him, or leave if you're gonna just resent him.
If you're serious about your relationship then you have the perfect opportunity right here to bond with the kid so he'll regard you as an actual step mother when he grows up. And if you're not serious then just leave the house every other weekend and let your bf enjoy the time with his son.
I hate my boyfriends son.
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Hes only 4 years old. Everything hes doing sounds like normal 4 year old stuff.
Sounds like you need to stop being impatient and take a different approach. I used to hate my nephew for all of the same reasons and then some. Then i realized hes not a terror, hes a kid. He doesn't know better. So instead of getting all impatient and annoyed just calm down and try to teach him in a fun way. And if he makes you that angry then remove YOURSELF from the environment.
Thats your bfs kid. You can change bfs. He can't change kids. Either learn to get along with him, or leave if you're gonna just resent him.
If you're serious about your relationship then you have the perfect opportunity right here to bond with the kid so he'll regard you as an actual step mother when he grows up. And if you're not serious then just leave the house every other weekend and let your bf enjoy the time with his son.