I hate my bf son he 3 and i hate his mom i really hate being with him

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I just wanna really know like if I'm sick in the head or it is a phase I'm going through i think bad about him and i avoid paying him attention now i always didnt feel like this but I really don't like the boy and it bothers me because I love my bf so much i hate being next to him but I can't stand him not a liltle bit!! I dont like being around him my bf wonder what's the attitudes but never know but it be towards his son he looks jus like her It bothers me so much because I hate her and I know he have nothing to do with it but omg I still don't like him I just hate him just like I hate the mom

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Sounds like you're extremely jealous of your boyfriend's previous relationship, and the poor kid has become the focus for this, even though it's nothing to do with him.

    Your boyfriend has a history. All of us do. What happened between him and the mother of the boy is in the past. She may be a bitch, and the kid may be screwed up due to having a turbulent life or messed up parents, but that is irrelevant. What does matter is making your relationship with your boyfriend work, and his son is part of the package.

    Frankly, if I was your boyfriend, I'd be thinking again about being with you. You sound very insecure, needy and possessive. Also, if your boyfriend is any sort of father, he should be thinking about whether he wants a woman who hates his son anywhere near him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    That's messed up... well you've certainly given that poor kid a good reason to not like you. You need to get over this, or else leave the relationship, and find someone who doesn't have any kids.

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    • Zorak
      6 years ago

      I am taking yet again another morning dump. Luckily today it was much easier.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        So did you get some fiber in yesterday? Squeeze easy, my friend... squeeze easy.

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        • Zorak
          6 years ago

          I ate oatmeal yeaterday...so it helped me take a quick painless dump.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            Does oatmeal ever give you the runs? I've had some really loose bowel movements after eating oatmeal before.

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            • Zorak
              6 years ago

              Hmmm..probably...but it did seem to help this morning. Too much salad messes my stomach up real nice though.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I love him so much though 😣

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Okay, thanks to a response to someone else's comments on your post I think things are starting to come into a clearer focus.

        I feel like you don't really hate this poor kid for what or who he is, but rather that you are having hateful feelings towards him, because he bears a very strong resemblance to his mother with whom your boyfriend has already cheated on you. You probably can't look at this kid without thinking of his mom, and the fact that your boyfriend  cheated on you with her. In all honesty she's probably trying to get him back somehow, because they had this kid together. Regardless of what kinda people the adults are none of it is the fault of this poor three year old child. I personally think that both your boyfriend and his ex are scumbags.

        I think the best thing for you to do is to dump your scumbag boyfriend, because he's already got way to much baggage, and his ex isn't going anywhere, because they had this child together. I think you're only torturing yourself if you stay with this guy. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I wouldn't be surprised if the reason he isn't with his ex anymore is that he cheated on her with some skank-whore. This guy isn't  worth your time, energy and emotions. Free yourself,  and let him go.

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    Grow up! I reckon you should do your boyfriend and his son a favour and get out of their lives, you're far too immature and selfish to be around a child anyway

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    So how to feel beings though, the feelings & bad thoughts I have for his son

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    He cheated on me with her and she just always find a way to say something that's going to bother me she bother me period , I just dont wanna keep feeling bad maybe I don't need to be around him but I love my boyfriend so much i cried because were is this feeling coming from with the baby that I don't like him I every time I see him I look at his dead beat ass mother who haven't been around for 2 years now I'm sorry but I hate the boy for some reason I just dont like him it's some real life shit and I don't wanna keep feeling like this but I'm in love

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      He cheated on you with her skank ass? Girl, you need to leave that sorry son of a bitch alone! I know you're afraid of being alone, lots of people are, but it's not worth being with a cheating bastard just to not be alone.

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