That's probably not the "lesson" you're getting. You need to stay confident, work on YOURSELF, your self esteem, it will be liberating once you've conquered this fear. Bottom line is, people who try things will at times face rejection, the key in life is to not take things personally and don't beat yourself up if you do, just don't be bitter. This hatred that you have is a product of fear, you need to get over it. Occupy yourself with something you love and get lost in it, you need to love yourself first before you get into a relationship or even try. Focus on your relationship with YOURSELF. You need to be your best friend and support. That's what you're there for. That is my advice. Eventually you will have chemistry with someone who is good specifically for you and your needs. But you need to work on your confidence, God won't just throw someone into your life at the wrong time.
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That's probably not the "lesson" you're getting. You need to stay confident, work on YOURSELF, your self esteem, it will be liberating once you've conquered this fear. Bottom line is, people who try things will at times face rejection, the key in life is to not take things personally and don't beat yourself up if you do, just don't be bitter. This hatred that you have is a product of fear, you need to get over it. Occupy yourself with something you love and get lost in it, you need to love yourself first before you get into a relationship or even try. Focus on your relationship with YOURSELF. You need to be your best friend and support. That's what you're there for. That is my advice. Eventually you will have chemistry with someone who is good specifically for you and your needs. But you need to work on your confidence, God won't just throw someone into your life at the wrong time.
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I can only imagine what it would feel like to be “liberated" but you've typed alot of interesting points. I'll keep it in mind.