When I was six, if I disrespected my parents, or started screaming like a deranged lunatic in a shopping center because I couldn't have a candy bar or a comic, I would have been in serious trouble. Parents are becoming way too lenient with punishment these days. I'm not saying beat the kid, but just teach it a lesson for gods sake.
What my parents used to do was embarrass me.
If I made a fuss, they would speak in a loud tone and say "Everyone's looking at you and they're going to laugh at you because you're crying"
And that would shut me up.
Kids gotta fucking grow up. If some are getting pregnant at 15 and society ACCEPTS that, then they should start maturing a lot faster to "catch up"
And table manners. My god.
I was out to dinner with a couple mates and there was this family sitting in a booth, 3 kids. 1 baby and 2 toddlers. The 2 older children were being so rude, one was crying because he couldn't have something off the kids desert menu I think (couldn't really understand his blubbering) and the other was ripping up napkins and throwing them at his dad. The parents just ignored them. I was so tempted to waltz over there and smash their faces into their plates. Just because YOU have gotten used to your rude, obnoxious children (and have obviously taught them nothing) doesn't mean I want to listen to them all night while you stuff your faces.
When I was their age (I think about 3-4) I was polite, said my "pleases" and "thank you's" and if mum or dad said no to me, I would say okay. I wouldn't throw things around, scream, cry etc.
I do see where you're coming from. And I was sort of the same as you as a kid, except when I was about 3-4 I couldn't actually talk, so I didn't really have an option to be rude:P. And when I did learn to speak, I was a bit too shy to make scenes in public. Still had my moments though. Sometimes I was a right little moody cow. I don't think that means that other kids have to be that way and I don't really hold it against kids for being the way they are, because it's completely normal for them to act like that. I do feel very differently about parents, though. It's perfectly fine for children to act this way, but parents have to raise their kids properly so that they actually grow up. Bad parenting gets to me.
I'm not saying kids need to be perfect little angels... But they could be haha. Still doesn't change my mind though, I still think 98% are spoiled and rotten now a days. Not how it used to be late 80's...
I hate kids
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Hahaha.
When I was six, if I disrespected my parents, or started screaming like a deranged lunatic in a shopping center because I couldn't have a candy bar or a comic, I would have been in serious trouble. Parents are becoming way too lenient with punishment these days. I'm not saying beat the kid, but just teach it a lesson for gods sake.
What my parents used to do was embarrass me.
If I made a fuss, they would speak in a loud tone and say "Everyone's looking at you and they're going to laugh at you because you're crying"
And that would shut me up.
Kids gotta fucking grow up. If some are getting pregnant at 15 and society ACCEPTS that, then they should start maturing a lot faster to "catch up"
And table manners. My god.
I was out to dinner with a couple mates and there was this family sitting in a booth, 3 kids. 1 baby and 2 toddlers. The 2 older children were being so rude, one was crying because he couldn't have something off the kids desert menu I think (couldn't really understand his blubbering) and the other was ripping up napkins and throwing them at his dad. The parents just ignored them. I was so tempted to waltz over there and smash their faces into their plates. Just because YOU have gotten used to your rude, obnoxious children (and have obviously taught them nothing) doesn't mean I want to listen to them all night while you stuff your faces.
When I was their age (I think about 3-4) I was polite, said my "pleases" and "thank you's" and if mum or dad said no to me, I would say okay. I wouldn't throw things around, scream, cry etc.
Fucking rude kids and uncaring parents.
I could go on all day -_-
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I do see where you're coming from. And I was sort of the same as you as a kid, except when I was about 3-4 I couldn't actually talk, so I didn't really have an option to be rude:P. And when I did learn to speak, I was a bit too shy to make scenes in public. Still had my moments though. Sometimes I was a right little moody cow. I don't think that means that other kids have to be that way and I don't really hold it against kids for being the way they are, because it's completely normal for them to act like that. I do feel very differently about parents, though. It's perfectly fine for children to act this way, but parents have to raise their kids properly so that they actually grow up. Bad parenting gets to me.
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I'm not saying kids need to be perfect little angels... But they could be haha. Still doesn't change my mind though, I still think 98% are spoiled and rotten now a days. Not how it used to be late 80's...