I don't consider this gay- you get turned on because it's sexual tension, not because you're attracted to him. You can get turned on by a lot of things that you don't find attractive, but it feels wrong to you because you don't actually want to do it.
The only comparison I can offer here is a little non-comparable for obvious reasons, but stick with me. There's an occurrence that takes place for some rape victims where they end up getting off while they're being raped. They aren't attracted to the situation, they don't want it to happen, they can even be crying and saying no. Unfortunately, our bodies are physical, so what we think and feel doesn't always reflect in what our bodies tell us to do. We're designed to take advantage of whatever is given to us, even in an unfortunate situation.
What you did were gay acts, but unless you actually think about him and fantasize about the things you two could do, you're not really gay. You'd actually have to find yourself checking he and other men out and (CONTINUED)
getting turned on by ideas. If you happen to get excited when you remember previous encounters, pay attention and ask yourself which excites you more- the guy doing something to you, or the fact that something else is getting you off.
Most importantly, if it feels wrong, just plain wrong, stop doing it, because it is wrong in that case. Even if it was a woman, if you feel such a way you need to stop.
I hate him, but I love him too?
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I don't consider this gay- you get turned on because it's sexual tension, not because you're attracted to him. You can get turned on by a lot of things that you don't find attractive, but it feels wrong to you because you don't actually want to do it.
The only comparison I can offer here is a little non-comparable for obvious reasons, but stick with me. There's an occurrence that takes place for some rape victims where they end up getting off while they're being raped. They aren't attracted to the situation, they don't want it to happen, they can even be crying and saying no. Unfortunately, our bodies are physical, so what we think and feel doesn't always reflect in what our bodies tell us to do. We're designed to take advantage of whatever is given to us, even in an unfortunate situation.
What you did were gay acts, but unless you actually think about him and fantasize about the things you two could do, you're not really gay. You'd actually have to find yourself checking he and other men out and (CONTINUED)
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getting turned on by ideas. If you happen to get excited when you remember previous encounters, pay attention and ask yourself which excites you more- the guy doing something to you, or the fact that something else is getting you off.
Most importantly, if it feels wrong, just plain wrong, stop doing it, because it is wrong in that case. Even if it was a woman, if you feel such a way you need to stop.