It's one thing if a friend says to me, "Hey, we should head up to the Cape for the weekend." I can say yes or no easily. But if someone I'm dating is "suggesting" I do something I've already told him I'm not into, that's a deal breaker. I suggest superficial things to my friends (restaurants, movie...), but not things they've already said they don't want to do. I keep hearing from kids my age--especially guys--how important it is to experiment, and it's always doing what THEY want. I've NEVER had a dude think it was funny when I jokingly "suggest" a three-way with another dude, but nearly every one of my exes has "suggested" experimenting with other girls.
But in all seriousness, I know different people feel differently about it and hope everyone finds what we need/want.
If you've made it clear then fair enough, you can't change your sexuality to something that turns you off.
But I think there are the known dislikes and the unknowns, where you are not sure yet, like say a guy asks his girlfriend about anal. She's not principally opposed to the idea and is not convinced, but given the right situation where she is comfortable she may. Then of course there are things she may not have even considered.
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It's one thing if a friend says to me, "Hey, we should head up to the Cape for the weekend." I can say yes or no easily. But if someone I'm dating is "suggesting" I do something I've already told him I'm not into, that's a deal breaker. I suggest superficial things to my friends (restaurants, movie...), but not things they've already said they don't want to do. I keep hearing from kids my age--especially guys--how important it is to experiment, and it's always doing what THEY want. I've NEVER had a dude think it was funny when I jokingly "suggest" a three-way with another dude, but nearly every one of my exes has "suggested" experimenting with other girls.
But in all seriousness, I know different people feel differently about it and hope everyone finds what we need/want.
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If you've made it clear then fair enough, you can't change your sexuality to something that turns you off.
But I think there are the known dislikes and the unknowns, where you are not sure yet, like say a guy asks his girlfriend about anal. She's not principally opposed to the idea and is not convinced, but given the right situation where she is comfortable she may. Then of course there are things she may not have even considered.