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Everytime I have given a women oral I have absolutly hated it. I've give oral 5 or 6 times before I decided that it wasn't for me, dont get me wrong i love sex and getting a BJ, but pussy tasted bad so so bad.
So don't, just don't expect to get what you won't give.
Or maybe date women who take better care down there.
I'm a girl so you'd think I'd be biased in girls' favor. But I'm not. I think I get it. A dude's penis is on the outside of his body, but our vaginas are on the inside of ours. So for a dude to go down on us, he has to come in contact with the ecosystem of a warm, moist, internals space. And even though I have no hygiene issues I'm aware of, that just doesn't sound appealing to me.
I'm straight, but putting that aside, if I had to choose between going down on someone's inside, and going down on something on the outside of someone's body and kept clean (like after a shower...), it would be no contest. I mean, dudes have asked me to eat out their rears before, and I'm like no-fudgin'-way. If you need to get another girl because I'm not doing that, then more power to ya. Likewise, I don't ever expect a dude to go down on me.
On another note, though, whatever YOU don't like sexually is totally normal for you. You don't owe anyone anything sexually, even if you're dating her. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for being a reasonable and sane human being.
Certain people like and dislike certain things that's just a fact of life, and as you said when about the guy wanting you to eat his ass, if you can't get what you want from someone, don't get mad, go elsewhere.
Thank you for understanding this. It's a hurdle to get over.
The other issue is pubic hair.
I have no problem with hair per se, I don't want a girl that looks like a child, but there should be no hairs actually crossing the entrance.
For a girl, giving head without getting pubes in the mouth is really not that difficult. For us guys, it's like burying your face in a carpet to reach something wet.
I always clean the inside of my foreskin carefully (from UK, thus uncut), but how can I know all those folds of a vagina have been individually cared for to the same level?
The threat of smeg and pubes really mean I don't give oral all that often. I have to really want to do it. Like, she has to be straight out the shower on the day she trimmed.
We should get together some time, it seems we are of similar minds.
I kid of course. For all I know you're a 50 year old man looking to rape and kill someone.
But then again, the same could be said the other way round.
In the end, I guess the less said, the better. But it's too late for that now. Too late was the cry.
Dude, that was hilarious--in a good way. Yeah, I hear it from my girlfriends all the time. They don't want to give a dude oral, but expect to lie back and have guys give them oral. Whatever... But what shocks me the most is reading OTHER people tell those who don't like something that they HAVE to like it. I mean, whatever happened to personal freedoms? These are the same people who demand the right to decide to do what they want to do.
Sex should never feel like an obligation. Well, I guess I see one time that might not apply. When you're in a committed relationship I feel you have an obligation to be physically intimate with the other person, because I feel physical needs are real, not just a matter of lust. But even then, you have to compromise, right?
Don't ever let "them" tell you what you HAVE to like or do.
"But what shocks me the most is reading OTHER people tell those who don't like something that they HAVE to like it. I mean, whatever happened to personal freedoms? These are the same people who demand the right to decide to do what they want to do."
Naturally. I think we should always find ways to get more pleasure, if it means challenging ourselves to derive pleasure from an act we don't normally derive pleasure from. But if it's a physical limitation (my husband's cock tastes like mushrooms even after gratuitous use of soap, or something) then there's nothing you can do. However, if it's just "It makes me gag" because she tries taking it in too far, then just don't deep throat. A guy is not worth staying with if blowjob - deepthroat isn't a blowjob worth having.
If you're in a committed relationship, there are assumptions made and if those assumptions are wrong then that's perfectly human, just talk about them. If a compromise or arrangement ("I will only eat your ass out if you allow ME to clean it ;)" or something) cannot be reached, then a committed relationship is not worth staying in.
I hear where you're coming from. I've been with guys who told me I'd like something if I'd only give it a chance. I told each and every one of them to have fun with the next girl the found who agreed with 'em. Maybe I'd feel differently if I were a relationship person. I totally expect to live my life without kids or a "committed" partner. I'm just not willing to compromise enough. I figure if someone I'm with doesn't want to do X, he knows he doesn't want to do X and it's not my place to peer-pressure him into trying it. And I want people to treat me the same way.
I know wet pussy has a strong taste and in my first pussy expedition it i felt that taste to be too much and found it difficult to lick my first girlfriend. But in time i got used to the taste and it was awesome. Now i want pussy to taste like that. Its natural and i love that taste of pussy juice. If you don't like the taste of pussy try licking her asshole for starters. I love asshole as it dosent have any taste.
You're a good lover for this comment. Keep eating and dining out on that pussy and ass hoe.
If you have a pussy i can eat you out all day long. My favourite part of pussy licking is at the beginning when all that juice is fresh out of the pussy without any saliva. What i do is make out with my girlfriend for about 20-30 minutes and then go down on her. She would be so wet that her pussy will drip thick liquid which is so yummy.
That is sooooooo hot. Sigh, it sounds delicious. You get the award for sexiest comment!!! Wouldn't she be jealous, babe?
If you don't like the taste of pussy just lick the outside and clit area, she'll probably prefer that to whatever you're dong anyway.
My first girlfriend was 15 and I was 13. We were both virgins and never (as far as I remember) actually had sex and lost our virginities to each other, but we regularly engaged in oral sex. Her aphrodite, when wet and ready, was actually sweet and aromatic.
When people talk about "the young stuff", they're not kidding.
It's so unfair. My bf also doesn't like it, but expect me to give him a BJ.