Its not that we have no sexuality, far from it, but we just don't obsess on it every waking moment the ways guys do.
LOL.
Most of the time.
Or, put it like this, we may be just as sexual, but we don't tend to flaunt it the way guys do. We usually radiate inward, having been taught from a young age, usually, that sex is something to be cherished.
(and so it is! On the Other hand, I have spent a lot of time wondering about fems who only seem to give it out as a reward for something)
And here is the tricky part: You GUYS tend to get defensive, threatened and disbeliving when we act forward and uninhibited sexually.
I mean, if I am in a chatroom somewhere, and announce that I'm Female, I get hit on by guys ( :) ) - but If I Respond, if I get explicit (when I wish to) or get really nasty (on occation) guys seem to freak.
After a little bit of "COOL" guys start going "You're not really a girl, are you! No, No way are you a girl!"
And in real life it is worse. (shakes head)
Guys say they want a girl who is open and willing to try new things sexually - yet when we try and Be that way, we get called things like slut, whore and worse.
So, even when we DO wish to make love (and we do) we don't just find the nearest guy and jump on him.
I Hate Female Sexuality
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Its not that we have no sexuality, far from it, but we just don't obsess on it every waking moment the ways guys do.
LOL.
Most of the time.
Or, put it like this, we may be just as sexual, but we don't tend to flaunt it the way guys do. We usually radiate inward, having been taught from a young age, usually, that sex is something to be cherished.
(and so it is! On the Other hand, I have spent a lot of time wondering about fems who only seem to give it out as a reward for something)
And here is the tricky part: You GUYS tend to get defensive, threatened and disbeliving when we act forward and uninhibited sexually.
I mean, if I am in a chatroom somewhere, and announce that I'm Female, I get hit on by guys ( :) ) - but If I Respond, if I get explicit (when I wish to) or get really nasty (on occation) guys seem to freak.
After a little bit of "COOL" guys start going "You're not really a girl, are you! No, No way are you a girl!"
And in real life it is worse. (shakes head)
Guys say they want a girl who is open and willing to try new things sexually - yet when we try and Be that way, we get called things like slut, whore and worse.
So, even when we DO wish to make love (and we do) we don't just find the nearest guy and jump on him.
Hope it helps
The Divine Ms. O.