Hmm, when I first started reading, I was thinking "oh, that's idiotic," but after reading the whole thing, I think I understand where you're coming from.
Is it misogyny? I don't think it's as clear cut as that. Perhaps because the image you had of women (almost an idealised impression it seems) when you were younger has been destroyed (instead of having romance that is above sex, it turns out that women can be just as animalistic as men), you feel a sort of resentment and that mixes with the jealousy and then as you say "a weird, incongruous hatred for the male sex." This then becomes a strong dislike for female sexuality.
Why do you have these feelings abour men? Is it the people you've been surrounded with throughout your life and their behaviour/attitudes? Have you witnessed a man being abusive towards a woman at any point in your life? You don't need to answer those questions on here - I'm just hoping to help you figure it out.
You say that you feel as though "something wrong is being done to them," which could point to an urge in you to protect women, or perhaps it is more accurate to say to protect the _idea_ you have of women that stems from the concept you had when you were younger.
Anyway, the reason why I think that I can understand where you're coming from is because I've had similar feelings before. I can't recall when, but I think it probably involved someone I really admired or something.
Just out of curiosity - how do you feel about females who have sex with females? Hahaha
I know that I'm not really answering whether or not this is normal, but I've given up on that now because it's pointless really, so blah.
Thanks for your comment. I did witness some abuse and alot of the males I grew up around- though i grew up mostly around older females-were heavily mysogynist. I love females who have sex with females. It makes more sense to me, I can approve of that kind of attraction the way I can't with female attraction with men. It wouldn't be good for me, but I kinda wish all females were lesbian.
No problem :) Feelings like this are probably more widespread than you think, especially with the sorts of popularized views towards sex that we see everywhere nowadays. Literally everywhere. You can go into any newsagent and there will be "lads' mags" available, peddling the idea of women as mere sex objects. In the media, a lot of the time the woman is portrayed as the passive one, the one who submits, the one to give up something or take a backseat due to a relationship, the one who is violated in some way etc. To some degree, it seems to be an ingrained attitude or sentiment, whether people are conscious of it or not. Needless to say, this turns people off as well as on - so to speak.
Haha yeah, if all females were lesbian, that really wouldn't be to your benefit. Hopefully you wouldn't find reason to complain if someone were attracted to you though!
It's weird; I used to be borderline obsessed about anything to do with sex at one point, but after properly realising how transient and pointless it is (in my opinion), it doesn't appeal to me nearly as much as it once did. Really, it's not as important and big as everyone makes it out to be anyway. There are much more interesting things in the world.
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Hmm, when I first started reading, I was thinking "oh, that's idiotic," but after reading the whole thing, I think I understand where you're coming from.
Is it misogyny? I don't think it's as clear cut as that. Perhaps because the image you had of women (almost an idealised impression it seems) when you were younger has been destroyed (instead of having romance that is above sex, it turns out that women can be just as animalistic as men), you feel a sort of resentment and that mixes with the jealousy and then as you say "a weird, incongruous hatred for the male sex." This then becomes a strong dislike for female sexuality.
Why do you have these feelings abour men? Is it the people you've been surrounded with throughout your life and their behaviour/attitudes? Have you witnessed a man being abusive towards a woman at any point in your life? You don't need to answer those questions on here - I'm just hoping to help you figure it out.
You say that you feel as though "something wrong is being done to them," which could point to an urge in you to protect women, or perhaps it is more accurate to say to protect the _idea_ you have of women that stems from the concept you had when you were younger.
Anyway, the reason why I think that I can understand where you're coming from is because I've had similar feelings before. I can't recall when, but I think it probably involved someone I really admired or something.
Just out of curiosity - how do you feel about females who have sex with females? Hahaha
I know that I'm not really answering whether or not this is normal, but I've given up on that now because it's pointless really, so blah.
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Thanks for your comment. I did witness some abuse and alot of the males I grew up around- though i grew up mostly around older females-were heavily mysogynist. I love females who have sex with females. It makes more sense to me, I can approve of that kind of attraction the way I can't with female attraction with men. It wouldn't be good for me, but I kinda wish all females were lesbian.
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No problem :) Feelings like this are probably more widespread than you think, especially with the sorts of popularized views towards sex that we see everywhere nowadays. Literally everywhere. You can go into any newsagent and there will be "lads' mags" available, peddling the idea of women as mere sex objects. In the media, a lot of the time the woman is portrayed as the passive one, the one who submits, the one to give up something or take a backseat due to a relationship, the one who is violated in some way etc. To some degree, it seems to be an ingrained attitude or sentiment, whether people are conscious of it or not. Needless to say, this turns people off as well as on - so to speak.
Haha yeah, if all females were lesbian, that really wouldn't be to your benefit. Hopefully you wouldn't find reason to complain if someone were attracted to you though!
It's weird; I used to be borderline obsessed about anything to do with sex at one point, but after properly realising how transient and pointless it is (in my opinion), it doesn't appeal to me nearly as much as it once did. Really, it's not as important and big as everyone makes it out to be anyway. There are much more interesting things in the world.