i used to have that problem when i was a teenager,i tried really hard to pretend i'm normal but it only got worse lol cos i was terrified of how not normal i probably am,it seemed the whole world can stare at each other no problem,but i found it intimidating,i thing its the self esteem and confidence problems...when i get more serious problems in my life and i had to deal with them,-it made me a stronger person and i now i'm fine with some moderate eye contact,i still dont stare cos i dont need to,and if someone stares-thats just lack of manners...i still cant eat comfortably in public places though,i just cant relax,-theres always some wanker who looks right at you and the way you eat etc.at the same time i examine people sometimes without realising it,when they eat or talk to friends..i guess we cant avoid being a part of society,i wish i was comfortable with attention any time any place...still working on it and im 33.Lena
i hate eye contact
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i used to have that problem when i was a teenager,i tried really hard to pretend i'm normal but it only got worse lol cos i was terrified of how not normal i probably am,it seemed the whole world can stare at each other no problem,but i found it intimidating,i thing its the self esteem and confidence problems...when i get more serious problems in my life and i had to deal with them,-it made me a stronger person and i now i'm fine with some moderate eye contact,i still dont stare cos i dont need to,and if someone stares-thats just lack of manners...i still cant eat comfortably in public places though,i just cant relax,-theres always some wanker who looks right at you and the way you eat etc.at the same time i examine people sometimes without realising it,when they eat or talk to friends..i guess we cant avoid being a part of society,i wish i was comfortable with attention any time any place...still working on it and im 33.Lena