In that story a few people were telling the OP that her problems are comparatively petty. Then he basically says that telling her to cheer up because things could be worse is comparable to being sad because things could be better. Which is fucking stupid (see comment above) yeah... Read it tomorrow. Haha
It's fucking stupid that you completely missed the point. Just because someone has it worse, doesn't make the problems of the one suffering any less valid. It's ok to be sad once in awhile. In fact, it's better than bottling all up until it explodes. We all get sad, it's called being human. There's nothing wrong with it. You remind me of a rude version of those overly positive hippie people who ignore every problem and force themselves to act like everything is alright 24/7.
Oh and may I remind you that not everybody is like you? Good for you that you are happy with your things. Doesn't mean they satisfy someone else. Yes yes being a "whiny fuck" is just another part of being human. With emotions.
Ha. You think I don't have sympathy for sadness? That I think it's an intolerable feeling? You've misjudged me. I'm well aware of the spectrum of human emotion. This may be a shock to you but I have they ability to feel sadness too. But instead of wallowing in despair I choose to change my frame of mind. it's simple fucking psychology. This isn't about passive aggressive explosions, let's be real. it's simply a choice to be happier by reflecting on your blessings rather than what's lacking in your life, what you don't have. Hope your "favorite quote of all times" serves you well.
Yeah well not everyone can just "look on the bright side". I'm actually a positivist but I know what it's like to have a completely different mindset too. And yeah, it does serve me well. It pisses off people who go "BUT KIDS IN AFRICA ARE STARVING!!!" Crapola.
Damn! I just can't keep up with this conversatuion. I understood you meant that no one's suffering should be berated or belittled because others have it worse.
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Maybe this will help put it in context:
http://m.isitnormal.com/story/i-think-i-just-hit-rock-bottom-181480/?dl=comment-1821327
In that story a few people were telling the OP that her problems are comparatively petty. Then he basically says that telling her to cheer up because things could be worse is comparable to being sad because things could be better. Which is fucking stupid (see comment above) yeah... Read it tomorrow. Haha
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It's fucking stupid that you completely missed the point. Just because someone has it worse, doesn't make the problems of the one suffering any less valid. It's ok to be sad once in awhile. In fact, it's better than bottling all up until it explodes. We all get sad, it's called being human. There's nothing wrong with it. You remind me of a rude version of those overly positive hippie people who ignore every problem and force themselves to act like everything is alright 24/7.
Oh and may I remind you that not everybody is like you? Good for you that you are happy with your things. Doesn't mean they satisfy someone else. Yes yes being a "whiny fuck" is just another part of being human. With emotions.
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Ha. You think I don't have sympathy for sadness? That I think it's an intolerable feeling? You've misjudged me. I'm well aware of the spectrum of human emotion. This may be a shock to you but I have they ability to feel sadness too. But instead of wallowing in despair I choose to change my frame of mind. it's simple fucking psychology. This isn't about passive aggressive explosions, let's be real. it's simply a choice to be happier by reflecting on your blessings rather than what's lacking in your life, what you don't have. Hope your "favorite quote of all times" serves you well.
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Yeah well not everyone can just "look on the bright side". I'm actually a positivist but I know what it's like to have a completely different mindset too. And yeah, it does serve me well. It pisses off people who go "BUT KIDS IN AFRICA ARE STARVING!!!" Crapola.
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Seriously, I think I'm fucked up. You two seem to be talking about the SAME THING, you crazy people! lol lol
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It's called "Violent Agreement".
Damn! I just can't keep up with this conversatuion. I understood you meant that no one's suffering should be berated or belittled because others have it worse.
Nope, still not dumb.
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I'm not going to further explain why that quote is a poor way of looking at things. We'll just have to agree to disagree.
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I agree. =)
Oh, wait, you just did that in the link provided... I'm so so confused.