I strongly disagree with this. This guy is simply what most women think of as an ideal mate. His promiscuity is his own life style choice. He probably has social skills that are much higher than average. He is very likable; nothing seems wrong with him.
When you find the perfect guy, don't be surprised that he has had 80 previous partners. Simply put, it is sexual economics - the price you pay for perfection.
The perfect guy in the eyes of most women is not the one who has slept with the most women. The perfect man is someone who has standards and doesn't stick it in everything that walks.Sadly, men like this are few and far between. I mean I'd rather a guy who was picky about who he has sex with than one who isn't. It would make me feel special. And if you've has that many partners how picky can you really be?
I mean if he did sleep with 80 women it doesnt mean they were all super models... it also doesnt mean he has charm or charisma or anything...like I said it could have been 80 hookers or strippers...its possible and thats something you cant deny. It also doesnt mean that its true either. I do';t know why men feel that women will be impressed by the number of women they have slept with. Most of us will have the same reaction as the girl who posted this topic. Its the same most men have towards girls who have slept around.
Yes, perfect men are few and far between. And, I sense you would not settle for anything less. But, there are 80 women who *did* settle for something less including the OP.
Hommes laids avec les principes sont dégoûtantes parce qu'ils sont laids.
Were these supposed 80 women actually attractive women? Where they hookers? Or is he lying. You dont know and you cannot sit there and assume that 80 women just dropped their pants for this guy because he was just that great...thats silly. Fact is when you know as many men as I have and still do you learn that the guys who claim these high numbers are either
1.) Lying
2.) Have money and are able to pay for it either directly or indirectly
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3.) Purposely lower their standards and sleep with less attractive women who are not used to loads of male attention. I have one friend named Nick who is a complete whore and has a very hedonistic lifestyle. However most of the girls he sleeps with who are not pros, are really nothing special at all. His explanation is that in order to have that kind of fun you have to lower your standards. Really attractive beautiful women are much more difficult to bed down since they can have anyone they want and tend to be picky. Less attractive women (according to him) who are not used to male attention are far more likely to go to bed with you since they really dont have as many options.
VERY RARELY is a man that charming and handsome that he can bed down 80 beautiful women with out paying for it in some kind of way.
Option Number 3 (promiscuity) is what this post is about. I have not addressed your perceived standards comment because:
a) Not all women have vivacious beauty and charm like you do. You could bang Tom Cruise. Very few other women could do that.
b) It is not empirical, meaning it doesn't leave open for measurement the distribution of desirability of people in general. (Some people have facial scars).
I had a relationship with a guy that slept with more than 80 woman
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I strongly disagree with this. This guy is simply what most women think of as an ideal mate. His promiscuity is his own life style choice. He probably has social skills that are much higher than average. He is very likable; nothing seems wrong with him.
When you find the perfect guy, don't be surprised that he has had 80 previous partners. Simply put, it is sexual economics - the price you pay for perfection.
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The perfect guy in the eyes of most women is not the one who has slept with the most women. The perfect man is someone who has standards and doesn't stick it in everything that walks.Sadly, men like this are few and far between. I mean I'd rather a guy who was picky about who he has sex with than one who isn't. It would make me feel special. And if you've has that many partners how picky can you really be?
I mean if he did sleep with 80 women it doesnt mean they were all super models... it also doesnt mean he has charm or charisma or anything...like I said it could have been 80 hookers or strippers...its possible and thats something you cant deny. It also doesnt mean that its true either. I do';t know why men feel that women will be impressed by the number of women they have slept with. Most of us will have the same reaction as the girl who posted this topic. Its the same most men have towards girls who have slept around.
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Yes, perfect men are few and far between. And, I sense you would not settle for anything less. But, there are 80 women who *did* settle for something less including the OP.
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Again you are failing to address my points.
Were these supposed 80 women actually attractive women? Where they hookers? Or is he lying. You dont know and you cannot sit there and assume that 80 women just dropped their pants for this guy because he was just that great...thats silly. Fact is when you know as many men as I have and still do you learn that the guys who claim these high numbers are either
1.) Lying
2.) Have money and are able to pay for it either directly or indirectly
or
3.) Purposely lower their standards and sleep with less attractive women who are not used to loads of male attention. I have one friend named Nick who is a complete whore and has a very hedonistic lifestyle. However most of the girls he sleeps with who are not pros, are really nothing special at all. His explanation is that in order to have that kind of fun you have to lower your standards. Really attractive beautiful women are much more difficult to bed down since they can have anyone they want and tend to be picky. Less attractive women (according to him) who are not used to male attention are far more likely to go to bed with you since they really dont have as many options.
VERY RARELY is a man that charming and handsome that he can bed down 80 beautiful women with out paying for it in some kind of way.
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Option Number 3 (promiscuity) is what this post is about. I have not addressed your perceived standards comment because:
a) Not all women have vivacious beauty and charm like you do. You could bang Tom Cruise. Very few other women could do that.
b) It is not empirical, meaning it doesn't leave open for measurement the distribution of desirability of people in general. (Some people have facial scars).
c) The OP has learned her lesson.
You may have the last word of this thread.