I agree that guys probably found you more approachable when you weren't so hot. Guys are actually scared of getting rejected. I actually noticed the same thing back when I was thin and had a good body. If I showed up somewhere dressed to impress with make-up and my hair done nice (never slutty looking) I wouldn't get the same warm welcome and attention as when I showed up in the same places with the same people dressed down in a t-shirt, sweats, sneakers, a simple ponytail and light make-up. Maybe the girl next door look is more attractive or maybe all the sexiness was a bit intimidating. Maybe it also turned them on when I looked hot and they found it harder to hold a casual conversation without thinking of sex.
I got more guys when I was less attractive
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I agree that guys probably found you more approachable when you weren't so hot. Guys are actually scared of getting rejected. I actually noticed the same thing back when I was thin and had a good body. If I showed up somewhere dressed to impress with make-up and my hair done nice (never slutty looking) I wouldn't get the same warm welcome and attention as when I showed up in the same places with the same people dressed down in a t-shirt, sweats, sneakers, a simple ponytail and light make-up. Maybe the girl next door look is more attractive or maybe all the sexiness was a bit intimidating. Maybe it also turned them on when I looked hot and they found it harder to hold a casual conversation without thinking of sex.