Thanks for the best, most spot on post in this entire thread. True words of wisdom!
I am actually flabbergasted that the poll is currently at 50% (4y/4n). People are truly underestimating the severity of fatal allergies and to top if off it seems like a lot of people think it’s “normal” to choose a pet over a loved one. Relationships are all about caring for each other and we are better off without people who can’t even respect our fatal allergies. It seems like some people are naive, others are self centered and some are clueless.
Only people like you and me know the true extent of our allergies.
I long ago got over how many woman would lie about having a cat... or living with someone who had a cat. Just know that a lot of them will lie about it.
Anyway... the causal date ends instantly when I reacted to cat and they admitted they had lied to me about having one or living with one.
If someone tells me that they lived with someone with a cat; then I tell them that they have to wear fresh laundered clothing when we meet - and that always worked. If it moved far enough along for overnights and trips I could either provide them with the special allergen laundry detergent or they provided clothing for me to wash for them (and keep at my house).
Most ladies do not have cats... and any decent one will work with you on the allergen issue if they live with someone who does (their apartment or house is off limits for you), or if a previous apartment or house resident had a cat and the carpets, furniture, walls, etc. need cleaning with "anti-allergen" cleaners (I provided those cleaners and I split the cost of a carpet cleaning once).
Be sure to carry Albuteral, an epi-pen, and prednisone in your car and luggage for emergencies. I've never used the epi-pen... but I have used everything else, multiple times.
Go fourth and find a decent GF and other friends....
I got dumped… for a cat
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Thanks for the best, most spot on post in this entire thread. True words of wisdom!
I am actually flabbergasted that the poll is currently at 50% (4y/4n). People are truly underestimating the severity of fatal allergies and to top if off it seems like a lot of people think it’s “normal” to choose a pet over a loved one. Relationships are all about caring for each other and we are better off without people who can’t even respect our fatal allergies. It seems like some people are naive, others are self centered and some are clueless.
Only people like you and me know the true extent of our allergies.
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Your welcome.
I long ago got over how many woman would lie about having a cat... or living with someone who had a cat. Just know that a lot of them will lie about it.
Anyway... the causal date ends instantly when I reacted to cat and they admitted they had lied to me about having one or living with one.
If someone tells me that they lived with someone with a cat; then I tell them that they have to wear fresh laundered clothing when we meet - and that always worked. If it moved far enough along for overnights and trips I could either provide them with the special allergen laundry detergent or they provided clothing for me to wash for them (and keep at my house).
Most ladies do not have cats... and any decent one will work with you on the allergen issue if they live with someone who does (their apartment or house is off limits for you), or if a previous apartment or house resident had a cat and the carpets, furniture, walls, etc. need cleaning with "anti-allergen" cleaners (I provided those cleaners and I split the cost of a carpet cleaning once).
Be sure to carry Albuteral, an epi-pen, and prednisone in your car and luggage for emergencies. I've never used the epi-pen... but I have used everything else, multiple times.
Go fourth and find a decent GF and other friends....