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Every time I'm around girls that i like, i get emotional, not like sad or moody, but like when i talk to them my legs start to shake and i get really nervous, I just found out that this girl I liked was already dating someone, and i just got really sad and.. what do you call it, "Gave up on her" I didn't want to try to impress her anymore,so I stopped liking her. Is being emotional around girls normal?
Okay, if you want to be with a girl, you have to MAN UP. NEVER ever show weakness around women. Don't act nervous, don't be shy; they're not going to bite.
I'm going to tell you something and try to remember this:
When you see a girl you like, walk up to her, smile and say, "Hey, my name is _______" - this lets her know that she should get to know you.
Tell her that she looks cute! She'll smile and say thanks.
Then ask her "Do you have a boyfriend?" - This lets her know that you're interested in her.
She will say one of two things. YES or NO.
If she says YES, tell her "That's too bad...let me know if anything changes and WALK AWAY." - you keep your dignity in tact and she feels good about herself bc she got approached. NO HARM DONE!! NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF.
If she says NO (no bf), then say in these exact words "You should let me take you out." - Don't ask her is she wants to go out, tell her that she SHOULD let you take her out!
Then say, what's your number??? And she'll give it to you.
Don't be afraid of rejection, bc you can't get rejected, even if they say no. BE A MAN with BACKBONE and in my honest opinion, unless you are financially stable, you shouldn't EVEN BE THINKING ABOUT GETTING A GIRL. You need to be able to provide for your woman, protect her and lead her.