I get annoyed when i think of the past of gender?

I get really annoyed when I think of the past and how back then people were assigned genders at birth instead of allowing the person to say what they are.

There was no option to say you are no gender or gender neutral back then and that gets to my head and makes me really annoyed so much that I stay away from watching anything from back then that makes it clear there are only two genders.

I also turned down a job because their online application had only two gender options male and female when I am non binary which is no gender and I am also gender fluid which means some days I do feel I am a particular gender and making me choose a gender when I don't fully identify as one is so outdated and insulting.

I get so annoyed that it takes up my whole day sometimes several days and messes with my head to the point I feel like I don't want to ever talk to anyone again as long as I live.

Is this normal?

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  • litelander8

    THIS is a troll.

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    • Somenormie

      I should hope so litelander.

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  • Mini69

    You are a fucking idiot. Everyone has a gender based on the sexual organs they were born with or have had artificially tampered with. The modern idea that you choose your own gender or just don’t have one is bollocks. Check between your legs and see what equipment is down there and that will determine your gender.

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    • 1WeirdGuy

      They even changed the definition of the word gender in the freakin dictionary now. Go read the definition and then check a dictionary from the 2000s. Completely different definitions. You gotta say sex not gender now cause they just cite the new dictionary definition.

      Same thing happened to the word nationalist. Use to say "to be a patriot" now its "to be a patrot especially to the detriment of another country". The whole world is goin woke even Websters

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      • Mini69

        Well I guess I’m just old fashioned. I was born with a vagina which makes me female. I don’t get to decide I’m going to stop being female and suddenly have no gender or be male or switch to some other non existent gender the rest of the world has never heard of. These people who think they can do that are all cranks.

        Being a girl caused me to be discriminated against and publicly humiliated when I was at school. A few years later, the hotel where I worked as a receptionist was taken over and turned into a nightclub. They kept me on but the only job on offer was topless glass collector. In fact the only thing I was permitted to wear at work was a small thong and high heels. The young man I had worked with on reception, and who had been there a lot less time than I had, was also kept on, he got to work on the door fully clothed. So yeah there were many times I wished I’d been born male, but I didn’t get to choose. But that’s life, we are who we are and the youth of today should get back in the real world and realise that.

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      • hauntedbysandwiches

        This is facts

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  • RoyyRogers

    There is a thing called Sex. Which you clearly do not know about and so do not understand what transgenderism is. So I will be kind enough to enlighten you. Transgender is where your gender identity does not match your sexuality. Which in fact this was classed for a long time in the DSM manual even before the 2020 generation where gayness has become almost full accepted. You will also notice that 90 percent of the time the applications ask for SEX as male and female. The concept of gender being a separate thing has not become common place until recent years but it always existed and has always been known. So if a application does not have have those options it does not mean they are assigning your gender. No one can assign your gender idiot, your sex is what you are born with. Transgender says that you are the only one who can know your gender, so you are a fraud. I am tired of dumb fake people pretending to be TRans/Gay/Disabled/mentally/Impaired because it is "Trendy". Since people like you fuck it up for the people who actually are part of those category's. Transgenderism is a real issue, gays had to deal with years of discrimination, and having eye glasses, a walking stick or being in a wheel chair is not fun.

    That being said I do not see why applications still bother asking your gender. Or why the government or college ask you to put in your sexual orientation on the application process. Like how is that going to change anything?

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  • my_life_my_way

    There are still only two genders now

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    • BlackPeople

      As a black man trying to make it in this world, I must point out that you're wrong as a matter of... fact. The jury isn't out on this one.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Don't turn down a legit job offer just because of pronouns. You can explain that shit to them once you get the job.

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  • There are no non-binary people. Being that way is a fad. Being that way used to be exceptionally rare, but now it is quite common all of a sudden.

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  • jethro

    You are either XX or XY. Those are the only options you get and that is assigned when you were just a zygote. There is no choice past that.

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  • Tinybird

    You identify as non-binary, and I identify as a 6 year old Japanese anime girl who can turn into a tornado and who never ages.

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    • hauntedbysandwiches

      Ah the tornado lady

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  • I clicked on this expecting to see the same tired ol' approach of the stunning and brave variety. My faith in humanity remains intact for the time being.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    If this is legitimate I feel bad for you because if you worry about this its not gonna change tje world how you want it its just gonna hurt you only in life.

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  • Curiouskitten444

    The fact that it bothers you for days on end shows that you are unable to accept things as they are. Youre never going to be happy if you refuse to accept things out of your control.

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  • Clunk42

    Well, that tells us how much you love the truth.

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    • BlackPeople

      As a black man trying to make it in this world, I prefer the dictionary over rednecks as a source of truth.

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    • olderdude-xx

      and which truth is that?

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  • 12345678912

    Well written and thought out post.

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  • allialli

    hey! i’m non-binary too, and i wanna remind you that you’re not alone and even if the people on this website don’t support you you’ve got a whole community who does.

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