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I feel nauseous just thinking about it. I find men's bodies and semen simply disgusting. Yet I'm not a lesbian. I've refused to have sex for the past 7 years because I find it so repulsive
Sounds like you are asexual, like me. I don't find sex disgusting, though, I just think it's a boring waste of time.
I find sex with evil soul sucking whores repulsive aswell, but you don't hear me complaining. It's life.
Well, it sounds like you may have some trauma, and resentment there.
I try not to generalize about men, cause for the most part I really love them as human beings! Funny thing is I could live off of oral sex, I don't really need or want penetration without a condom. I made a comment like that once in the wrong company, and this lesbian asked me, "what about women", well I'm not attracted to women so honestly that ain't gonna happen. If I think about being with a woman for too long it will nauseate me.
Most men suck at penetration. They act like they are hammering a nail and they get a prize for how hard they can pound :/
I don't mind it, but some men taste better than others. I'd certainly rather have that DNA material in my mouth than in my girl parts. Now if he loves me as much, or dare I say more, than I love him and we get married then it's a different story, but I don't feel like ever being a single mother, especially at my age.
Yeah, I don't generally get satisfied from that unless I'm on top, and not in some ride em cowgirl way, but an awful grudge fucked by an angry chick way.
Trust me women have much more odor issues than men...that honeypot can turn into a dead fish puke hole real quick
Well, I haven't had any complaints. I've met guys who have "issues", because of their bad experiences with an ex girlfriend. I've also met dated two guys who have actually contracted a yeast infection from an ex girlfriend.
One guy just told me his tale of woe which was especially bad, because she wasn't giving or generous orally with him, so I could honestly understand if he had issue. Interestingly enough he was a real champ in the bedroom! Lots of oral for both of us, he could easily have intercourse 4 times a night, and he always used condoms. He was also a really sweet and intelligent man, a great guy all around!
The second guy wasn't willing to even try, because he was so traumatized by his past experience, however he actually liked my personal essence so much that he would request my used underwear. While I can certainly sympathize with his problem I don't have time to deal with all of that Goddamm baggage, because I am not his ex. Also I don't like to buy cheap underwear, so I can't afford to just give my used panties away to some poor dysfunctional guy who is haunted by his ex's old yeast infected cooch! I felt sorry for him, but it was a deal breaker for me. I'm not interested enabling someone else's dysfunction and codependency! Fuck that shit!
There are people, both men and women, who don't taste and or smell so great. This funky business could very well be due to chemical, hormonal, and dietary issues as well as bad personal hygiene. People who smoke, drink and or eat fatty foods to excess tend not to be the freshest and tastiest. That is certainly a deal breaker for me. On the other hand if a person has good personal hygiene, drinks plenty of water, exercises and eats plenty of fruits and vegetables their body should be fresh and function smoothly like a well oiled machine.
I don't appreciate you pointing the proverbial finger at me, a person you don't know, regarding the "dead fish puke holes" from your previous misadventures! I suggest you try to date a better class of female and if you can't or they reject you upon approach then perhaps you ought work on yourself to improve yourself so that you might be considered more attractive to said better class of woman!
I'm sorry if you've had bad experiences in the past, but it's not the responsibility of myself nor the rest of my gender to shoulder the blame for those experiences. Please don't try to school me on the female anatomy as I happen to be the owner and caretaker of my own personal vagina with which I am intimately acquainted.
For your information oral sex with a woman is not so much about the "honey pot" as it is about the little man in the boat, the clitoris should be the focal point. Pick up a book or Google it.
P.S. Your punctuation could use some work, boy!
Firstly, I wasn't commenting on your particular aroma at all, as I have obviously never had the personal experience to waft in those juices....so I have no idea if its parfume du roses or week old vichyssoise ....the tunnel of love or the Holland tunnel.
Also, I was not giving or asking for advanced lessons in cunnilingus, I've had no complaints so far, thank you...so you can keep rowing your little man in the boat all the way out to sea...however, I will advise you to not actually use that metaphor to an actual male lover as we men do not like to think of men at all when we are muff diving no matter how small, thank you again...
I was merely pointing out that in the gross departmemt when it comes to oral sex...it is men , not women who are MORE LIKELY to encounter unpleasant situations as women's anatomy is more conducive to entrap and fester noxious odors,etc..
Its so annoying that people keep telling you to get used to sex. If you are not turned on by male body and are disgusted by semen (whats totally fine!) Then you just need to avoid having sex with male ejaculation. There are 100 other things you can do with men, that does not involve semen at all
I suppose its normal, though I don't know if this would be filed under some sort of sexuality, or some sort of turn off? As, well, I'm not you. Can you possibly see yourself as an Asexual?
Even though it isn't normal to feel like this, I think it just depends on your age. Perhaps when you get a little older you'll start to like the idea
I have heard of similar issues among women razed in very religious family's. Is such the case for you?
It could also be a factor if you're on birth control or not. I had NO sex drive on a certain type of BC
If you are avoiding sex with men just because you don't want to do it for now, that is understandable. But if you are telling me that you hate sex with men then i suspect you are a lesbian. Which lady hate sex with men if not a lesbian
Some people just don't like sex, there's nothing wrong with that. And maybe you just haven't found the right person either. Don't worry :)