I was trying to be funny, but since you asked, I think reducing sex to a contract would take the enjoyment out of it , although as far as the overall relationship- I totally agree with you.
I dated a girl who always wanted oral sex but never wanted to give it...in fact she didnt even like to give sex but sort of endured it as a reward for oral....
See if I were you I would see that chick's attitude in the bedroom as a dealbreaker. I think it's important to love and respect one's self enough to not let a user stick around. No offense to you, brah, but that chick sounds hella selfish.
I bet, that was hard. I think we're all suckers for a pretty face. I know I can get into a weird codependent space where I'm stuck on someone, and want them to change for me, but it's pointless. Good for you for kicking her to the curb. It sucks to get used and taken for granted.
Story of my life....I used to think girls would change for me and I still hope they do but I dont count on it....They never do and I always end up alone anyway....but even though I have low self esteem in some ways I usually still have standards and wont be totally taken advantage of....now girls that really know how to play me...if they come on really sweet and sexy..Im still a sucker for
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I was trying to be funny, but since you asked, I think reducing sex to a contract would take the enjoyment out of it , although as far as the overall relationship- I totally agree with you.
I dated a girl who always wanted oral sex but never wanted to give it...in fact she didnt even like to give sex but sort of endured it as a reward for oral....
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See if I were you I would see that chick's attitude in the bedroom as a dealbreaker. I think it's important to love and respect one's self enough to not let a user stick around. No offense to you, brah, but that chick sounds hella selfish.
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I dumped her...but it was hard because she was smoking hot...maybe the most physically attractive girl I ever dated
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I bet, that was hard. I think we're all suckers for a pretty face. I know I can get into a weird codependent space where I'm stuck on someone, and want them to change for me, but it's pointless. Good for you for kicking her to the curb. It sucks to get used and taken for granted.
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Story of my life....I used to think girls would change for me and I still hope they do but I dont count on it....They never do and I always end up alone anyway....but even though I have low self esteem in some ways I usually still have standards and wont be totally taken advantage of....now girls that really know how to play me...if they come on really sweet and sexy..Im still a sucker for
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I'm a sucker for a pretty face and beautiful eyes, but it's what's behind those eyes that really counts.