First, you got to be a chick, because, no dude would EVER say that. I am a dude, so, I know this for a fact.
So, with that in mind, you need to relax! You don't need to worry about HIM getting off, rub it long enough and he'll come. I am sure ANYTHING you do he finds pleasing. Just laying there with your legs wide open is enough, he'll do the work.
Now, with that said, if you don't enjoy it, it's because you weren't in the "mood" in the first place.
Have him give you a NICE back rub first, start with clothes on, SLOWLY progress to less and less clothes until naked.
Second, he needs to START by getting you off, not the reverse. I always try to give my woman 5 or 6 orgasms first...at least, sometimes more, sometimes less, it depends on how much time we have! But, regardless, once your motor is "running" and you have had 1 or 2, he can get going to the finish line, I guarantee you will both finish together!
Now, if that doesn't work, well, it is time you start having an emotional connection to whomever you are sleeping with!
Sorry Dude Wrong on even the most basic of points. I'm a man and a Bi man so it's both man and women whom I've found displeasing in the sack.
Also If you honestly think the male orgasm is really that simple I pity any guy that finds himself with you. Women have to work just as hard as men in the bedroom.
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First, you got to be a chick, because, no dude would EVER say that. I am a dude, so, I know this for a fact.
So, with that in mind, you need to relax! You don't need to worry about HIM getting off, rub it long enough and he'll come. I am sure ANYTHING you do he finds pleasing. Just laying there with your legs wide open is enough, he'll do the work.
Now, with that said, if you don't enjoy it, it's because you weren't in the "mood" in the first place.
Have him give you a NICE back rub first, start with clothes on, SLOWLY progress to less and less clothes until naked.
Second, he needs to START by getting you off, not the reverse. I always try to give my woman 5 or 6 orgasms first...at least, sometimes more, sometimes less, it depends on how much time we have! But, regardless, once your motor is "running" and you have had 1 or 2, he can get going to the finish line, I guarantee you will both finish together!
Now, if that doesn't work, well, it is time you start having an emotional connection to whomever you are sleeping with!
Doesn't he notice you are not into it???
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Sorry Dude Wrong on even the most basic of points. I'm a man and a Bi man so it's both man and women whom I've found displeasing in the sack.
Also If you honestly think the male orgasm is really that simple I pity any guy that finds himself with you. Women have to work just as hard as men in the bedroom.